Nervousness - Fear - Wanting to cry - Nausea
Hello, I would like to ask for advice regarding a friend of mine.
She has suffered emotional and psychological harm due to poor social choices, which has led her to develop a fear of going out, increased anxiety, and nervousness when speaking.
I also noticed that her hands are constantly rubbing together and sweating when I hold them.
Additionally, she frequently experiences severe insomnia at night and even has episodes of vomiting.
If she needs a diagnosis, which medical specialty should I take her to see? Thank you very much for your help!
Irene, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/04/26
Dr. Zhong Mingxun reply Psychiatry
I'm not sure what type of injury your friend has sustained, but it seems to be very serious, to the point where it has severely affected her basic sense of personal safety.
As a result, she is experiencing extreme anxiety and may need to seek medical attention from a psychiatrist or a mental health specialist as soon as possible.
It also appears that she is in urgent need of psychological therapy to help heal from this trauma.
Reply Date: 2016/04/26
More Info
It sounds like your friend is experiencing significant anxiety and distress due to past negative experiences, which is affecting her daily life and mental health. The symptoms you describe—fear of going out, anxiety when speaking, physical signs of anxiety (like sweating and fidgeting), severe insomnia, and even nausea—are all indicative of a serious anxiety disorder.
In situations like this, it's crucial to approach the matter with care and empathy. Your friend may be dealing with a condition such as Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), Social Anxiety Disorder, or even Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), depending on the specifics of her experiences and symptoms. Regardless of the exact diagnosis, the key takeaway is that she needs professional help.
When to Seek Help
1. Persistent Symptoms: If her anxiety symptoms persist for more than a few weeks and interfere with her daily life, such as her ability to work, socialize, or perform daily tasks, it is time to seek help.
2. Physical Symptoms: The physical manifestations of anxiety, like excessive sweating, nausea, and insomnia, can lead to further health complications if not addressed. Chronic anxiety can also contribute to other health issues, such as gastrointestinal problems or cardiovascular issues.
3. Impact on Relationships: If her anxiety is affecting her relationships with friends and family, it’s a sign that she may need support from a mental health professional.
Where to Go for Help
Given the symptoms you've described, the best course of action would be to take your friend to a mental health professional. Here are the types of specialists she might consider:
1. Psychiatrist: A psychiatrist is a medical doctor who specializes in mental health. They can evaluate her condition, provide a diagnosis, and prescribe medication if necessary. This is particularly useful if her anxiety is severe and may require pharmacological intervention.
2. Psychologist or Therapist: A licensed psychologist or therapist can provide psychotherapy (talk therapy), which is effective for treating anxiety disorders. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for anxiety, as it helps individuals identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviors.
3. Counselor: A licensed counselor can also provide support and guidance. They may use various therapeutic techniques to help her cope with anxiety and develop healthier coping mechanisms.
How to Support Your Friend
- Encourage Open Communication: Let her know that it’s okay to talk about her feelings and fears. Sometimes just having someone listen can be incredibly beneficial.
- Offer to Accompany Her: If she feels anxious about going to appointments, offer to accompany her. This can provide her with the emotional support she needs to take that first step.
- Educate Yourselves: Learning more about anxiety disorders can help both of you understand what she is going through. This knowledge can also help reduce stigma and fear associated with seeking help.
- Promote Healthy Habits: Encourage her to engage in activities that promote relaxation and well-being, such as exercise, mindfulness, or yoga. These can help alleviate some symptoms of anxiety.
- Be Patient: Recovery from anxiety can take time. Be patient and supportive as she navigates her feelings and the process of seeking help.
Conclusion
In summary, your friend is showing signs of significant anxiety that warrant professional intervention. Taking her to see a psychiatrist or psychologist would be a beneficial step. Your support as a friend is invaluable during this time, and encouraging her to seek help can make a significant difference in her journey toward recovery. Remember, mental health is just as important as physical health, and seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
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