Is It Dangerous? Risks After a Sexual Encounter - Urology

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Is it a dangerous action?


Last week, I visited a sex worker.
During the encounter, we used a condom, but since I couldn't ejaculate, she removed the condom and used lubricant to masturbate me.
Is this a risky behavior? I also have non-itchy blisters on my arm; could this be syphilis?

Xiao An, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/05/23

Dr. Li Xinyi reply Urology


It sounds okay, but I can only say that the likelihood of illness is low based on your description.
The symptoms you mentioned are not specific and cannot be used for diagnosis.
If you are concerned about syphilis and have engaged in high-risk behavior, it is advisable to see a urologist for blood tests and follow-up.

Reply Date: 2016/05/23

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Engaging in sexual activities, especially with sex workers, can raise concerns about sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and HIV. In your case, you mentioned that you used a condom during intercourse, which is a significant step in reducing the risk of transmission of STIs, including HIV. However, there are several factors to consider regarding the potential risks associated with your encounter.

Firstly, using a condom correctly and consistently is one of the most effective ways to prevent the transmission of HIV and other STIs during penetrative sex. Since you indicated that the condom was used during vaginal intercourse, this significantly lowers your risk of contracting HIV, provided that the condom did not break or slip off during the act.
However, you mentioned that after intercourse, the condom was removed, and the sex worker used her hands to stimulate you. This introduces a potential risk, especially if her hands had come into contact with vaginal fluids. If she had any STIs, there is a possibility that those could be transmitted through her hands to your genital area. The risk of transmission in this scenario is generally lower than during penetrative sex, but it is not zero.
Regarding your concern about the water blisters on your arm, it is essential to differentiate between various skin conditions. Water blisters can arise from numerous causes, including allergic reactions, friction, or infections. While syphilis can cause skin lesions, it typically presents differently, often starting as a painless sore (chancre) at the site of infection. If you are concerned about syphilis or any other STI, it is crucial to consult a healthcare provider for proper evaluation and testing.

In terms of HIV risk, if the sex worker is HIV-positive and her fluids came into contact with your mucous membranes (such as the urethra), there is a risk of transmission. However, the risk is significantly lower than if there had been unprotected penetrative sex. It is advisable to get tested for STIs, including HIV, after a potential exposure. The window period for HIV testing is typically around three months, but some tests can provide results sooner.
In summary, while your encounter does carry some risk, the use of a condom during intercourse greatly reduces the likelihood of contracting HIV. The risk associated with hand stimulation after condom removal is lower but still present, particularly if there was contact with vaginal fluids. If you notice any unusual symptoms or if you are concerned about your health, it is essential to seek medical advice promptly. Regular testing and open communication with sexual partners about STI status are vital components of maintaining sexual health.

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