How to handle it?
Hello, doctor: Relative A does not live in the old home but is registered there.
Whenever other relatives return to the old home, he calls the police to report that someone has emptied his house.
This has happened several times.
The local police are aware that he is a problematic individual; he has a history of being sent for medical evaluation, but the doctor found no issues.
When speaking with her, he always seems to be off-topic, yet his daily behavior appears normal.
Could this indicate a mental illness?
SAKI, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/06/09
Dr. Wang Yixiang reply Psychiatry
Hello, it is not possible to determine the presence of a mental illness solely based on these judgments, as conditions such as dementia, delusional disorder, schizophrenia, and substance abuse can exhibit similar symptoms.
It is recommended that you take your relative to a psychiatrist for proper diagnosis and related treatment.
Nantou Hospital's Psychiatry Department cares about you.
Reply Date: 2016/06/09
More Info
Addressing potential mental health issues in relatives can be a complex and sensitive matter, especially when the individual in question exhibits behaviors that raise concerns. In your case, it appears that your relative has been displaying signs that could indicate underlying mental health issues, such as paranoia or delusional thinking, particularly with the repeated calls to the police about perceived threats to his property.
Firstly, it’s important to recognize that mental health issues can manifest in various ways, and not all individuals will present with overt symptoms. The fact that your relative has a history of being evaluated by medical professionals and was deemed "normal" does not necessarily mean that there are no ongoing issues. Mental health conditions can fluctuate, and symptoms may not always be apparent during a clinical evaluation.
The behaviors you describe—such as calling the police multiple times about perceived thefts—could suggest a form of paranoia or delusional disorder. These conditions can lead individuals to misinterpret reality, often feeling threatened or believing that others are conspiring against them. It’s also possible that your relative is experiencing anxiety or stress that manifests in these behaviors.
Here are some steps you can take to address the situation:
1. Open Communication: If you feel comfortable, try to have an open and non-confrontational conversation with your relative. Express your concerns in a caring manner, focusing on how much you care about their well-being rather than labeling their behavior as problematic. Use "I" statements, such as "I’ve noticed you seem worried about your home, and I want to help."
2. Encourage Professional Help: If your relative is open to it, suggest that they speak with a mental health professional. This could be a psychologist, psychiatrist, or counselor who can provide a thorough assessment and appropriate support. It may be helpful to frame this suggestion positively, emphasizing that seeking help is a sign of strength.
3. Educate Yourself: Understanding mental health issues can help you approach the situation with empathy. Familiarize yourself with common mental health disorders, their symptoms, and treatment options. This knowledge can empower you to provide informed support.
4. Involve Other Family Members: If appropriate, involve other family members who may share your concerns. A united approach can sometimes encourage the individual to seek help, as they may feel less isolated in their experiences.
5. Monitor the Situation: Keep an eye on your relative’s behavior. If their actions escalate or if they pose a danger to themselves or others, it may be necessary to take more immediate action, such as contacting mental health crisis services or emergency services.
6. Be Patient and Supportive: Change often takes time, especially when it comes to mental health. Be patient with your relative and continue to offer your support. Let them know that you are there for them, regardless of their current state.
7. Self-Care: Supporting someone with potential mental health issues can be emotionally taxing. Ensure you are also taking care of your own mental health by seeking support from friends, family, or professionals if needed.
In conclusion, addressing potential mental health issues in relatives requires a compassionate and informed approach. By fostering open communication, encouraging professional help, and remaining supportive, you can help your relative navigate their challenges. Remember, mental health is a spectrum, and even if someone appears to be functioning normally, they may still be struggling internally. Your concern and willingness to help can make a significant difference in their journey toward better mental health.
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