Struggling with Focus and Anxiety: Your Mental Health - Psychiatry

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Hello doctor, I have noticed that I really struggle to focus (it takes a lot of willpower...) which makes studying particularly difficult.
Additionally, during exams, I tend to pick at my hands until they are covered in wounds (sometimes even bleeding).
If I don't pick, I can't concentrate and find it hard to study...
:( What should I do??? The pressure is driving me almost insane...
Do I have some kind of psychological disorder? My mom says that my constant hand-picking is a sign of a problem...
I feel very sad because I don't want to do this, but sometimes I just can't help it...
Should I see a doctor? Please help!!!!! → I also pick at my hands when I'm bored or anxious.

Xin, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/10/10

Dr. Zhong Mingxun reply Psychiatry


You are under too much stress! When stress arises, you unconsciously engage in skin picking to alleviate anxiety, and it has become a habit.
However, skin picking only provides temporary relief from anxiety and does not address the underlying stress, potentially leading to further issues.
Medically, this is considered a compulsive behavior caused by stress, which requires both pharmacological treatment and psychotherapy.
It is important to seek help from a mental health professional as soon as possible to break this vicious cycle.

Reply Date: 2016/10/10

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It sounds like you are experiencing significant challenges with focus and anxiety, particularly in high-pressure situations like exams. The behaviors you describe, such as picking at your hands to the point of injury, can be indicative of underlying anxiety or stress-related disorders. This is a common issue among individuals who struggle with anxiety, and it can manifest in various ways, including compulsive behaviors.

Firstly, it's important to recognize that what you are experiencing is not uncommon. Many people face difficulties with concentration and focus, especially when they are under stress. Anxiety can create a cycle where the fear of not performing well leads to increased stress, which in turn makes it even harder to concentrate. This can create a vicious cycle that is difficult to break.

The act of picking at your hands, especially when it leads to injury, may be a coping mechanism for dealing with anxiety. This behavior is often seen in conditions such as Body-Focused Repetitive Behavior (BFRB), which includes habits like skin picking, hair pulling, or nail biting. These behaviors can provide temporary relief from anxiety but ultimately lead to physical harm and increased feelings of distress.

Here are some strategies that might help you manage your anxiety and improve your focus:
1. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practicing mindfulness can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation can help reduce anxiety and improve focus. You might find it helpful to set aside a few minutes each day to practice these techniques.

2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This form of therapy is effective for anxiety and can help you identify and challenge negative thought patterns that contribute to your anxiety and compulsive behaviors. A therapist can work with you to develop coping strategies and healthier ways to manage stress.

3. Set Realistic Goals: Break your study sessions into smaller, manageable tasks. Instead of trying to study for hours at a time, aim for shorter, focused sessions with breaks in between. This can help reduce feelings of overwhelm and make it easier to concentrate.

4. Limit Distractions: Create a study environment that minimizes distractions. This might include turning off notifications on your phone, finding a quiet space, or using tools like noise-canceling headphones.

5. Physical Activity: Regular exercise can significantly reduce anxiety and improve mood. Even short walks or stretching can help clear your mind and reduce tension.

6. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Ensure you are eating a balanced diet, getting enough sleep, and staying hydrated. These factors can greatly influence your mental health and ability to focus.

7. Seek Professional Help: If your anxiety and compulsive behaviors continue to interfere with your daily life, it may be beneficial to consult a mental health professional. They can provide you with a proper assessment and recommend treatment options tailored to your needs.

It's understandable to feel overwhelmed and frustrated by your situation, but remember that seeking help is a sign of strength. You are not alone in this, and there are effective strategies and treatments available to help you manage your anxiety and improve your focus. Don't hesitate to reach out for support, whether it's from a therapist, a trusted friend, or family members. Taking that first step can lead to significant improvements in your mental health and overall well-being.

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