Can We Breathe Easy? Addressing Pregnancy Concerns in Women’s Health

Can I be assured?

Doctor, I'm sorry to bother you, but I have a question.
On July 18th, I touched my girlfriend's clitoris to help her with masturbation, but I did not touch her vagina.
However, prior to that, I think I may have touched my own genitals.
Although there was no ejaculation, I am still a bit worried because I had an erection and I'm concerned about possibly transferring any fluids.
At the time, I didn't feel any liquid on my hands, and after touching, I wiped my hands on my clothes.
She also urinated afterward.

We are quite worried because my girlfriend's menstrual cycle is usually around 29 to 32 days, but this time, due to stress, her period came on the 35th day, on July 25th.
The flow and duration were normal.
Later, on August 22nd, her period also came, and it was similar to her usual cycle.
However, I still felt anxious, so on August 29th, I asked her to take a pregnancy test.
Although it wasn't first-morning urine, she hadn't urinated for over four hours.
After waiting 5 to 6 minutes, the result was one line.

Then, on September 21st, her period came again, and she said it was a normal amount and duration.
Yet, I still felt uneasy, so on October 1st, I asked her to test again, this time with first-morning urine.
After waiting 5 minutes, the result was also one line.
Can we rule out the possibility of pregnancy? Now, her period is late; it's already the 34th day.
This month, her grandfather passed away, and she has been crying for a week and is very busy and tired.
Could this be affecting her cycle and causing the delay?

asdy, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/10/23

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Hello, the chances of pregnancy are low, but it is always best to take preventive measures beforehand.
Do not rely on the safe period.
If your period is more than a week late, it is advisable to see a gynecologist.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2016/10/23

More Info

It sounds like you are experiencing a lot of anxiety regarding the possibility of pregnancy, especially given the circumstances surrounding your girlfriend's menstrual cycle and the stress she has been under. Let’s break down your concerns and address them from a medical perspective.

Firstly, based on the timeline you provided, it appears that your girlfriend has had her menstrual period on July 25, August 22, and September 21, which aligns with her typical cycle length of 29 to 32 days. The fact that she has had regular menstrual cycles following the incident you described suggests that she is likely not pregnant. Pregnancy tests, especially when taken correctly, are quite reliable. The tests you mentioned, particularly the one taken with morning urine, would have provided a good indication of pregnancy status. A single line on a home pregnancy test typically indicates a negative result, meaning that there is no pregnancy.

Stress can indeed affect menstrual cycles. The emotional strain from her grandfather's passing and the subsequent stress can lead to delayed periods. Stress can cause hormonal fluctuations that may result in changes to the menstrual cycle, including delayed or missed periods. It is not uncommon for women to experience irregularities in their cycles during times of significant emotional distress.

Regarding your concerns about the physical contact you described, it is important to note that pregnancy typically occurs through vaginal intercourse where sperm is deposited in the vagina. While it is theoretically possible for sperm to be transferred from the hands to the vagina, the likelihood of this happening in the scenario you described is very low, especially since you mentioned there was no ejaculation involved. Additionally, urine is a natural way for the body to expel sperm, and if your girlfriend urinated after the contact, it would further reduce any risk of pregnancy.

If your girlfriend's period does not arrive soon, it may be beneficial for her to consult with a healthcare provider. They can provide reassurance and check for any underlying issues that may be affecting her menstrual cycle. It’s also a good idea for her to discuss her emotional well-being, especially given the recent loss in her family, as mental health can significantly impact physical health.

In summary, based on the information you provided, it seems unlikely that your girlfriend is pregnant, especially given her regular menstrual cycles following the incident and the negative pregnancy tests. However, if her period continues to be delayed or if either of you has further concerns, seeking medical advice would be a prudent step. It's essential to prioritize both physical and mental health during this time, and open communication between you and your girlfriend can help alleviate some of the anxiety you both may be feeling.

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