Anxiety disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), depression?
Hello, doctor.
I often feel anxious over very small things or something someone says.
For example, if someone comments about me, I will constantly search online, check myself, and ask others about what that person said.
This anxiety significantly affects my life because it leaves me feeling restless and in a state of fear.
I am unsure whether my condition is classified as obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety disorder, or depression.
I have never seen a real psychologist; I used to think it was OCD, so I kept seeing doctors who specialize in that.
I think a lot, which makes me feel exhausted.
Sometimes, when I can't control my thoughts, I have suicidal thoughts and wish to end my life.
My thoughts fluctuate, and during those uncontrollable moments, it is truly tormenting because I feel so tired.
I go through each day without much feeling.
Previously, a doctor treating my OCD prescribed me fluoxetine, but I stopped taking it because it made me too drowsy.
Recently, my friend noticed that I am struggling to control my thoughts again, so she suggested that I see a psychologist or consider medication.
Should I take medication?
Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/11/16
Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello: Your analysis is very good.
There is no need to overemphasize what others say; I suggest redirecting your time and energy elsewhere.
Consider rethinking the important goals for yourself and focus on pursuing and achieving those goals.
Engage in hobbies and interests that help you relax during your leisure time.
If you find it difficult to adjust or if negative thoughts continue to increase, I recommend seeking medical assistance.
Both medication and psychological counseling can be beneficial.
Wishing you all the best.
Reply Date: 2016/11/16
More Info
It sounds like you are experiencing a significant amount of distress due to anxiety, obsessive-compulsive tendencies, and possibly depressive symptoms. First and foremost, it's important to acknowledge that what you're feeling is valid, and seeking help is a crucial step toward improving your mental health.
From your description, it seems that you may be dealing with a combination of anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). The fact that small comments or situations trigger intense feelings of anxiety and lead you to compulsively check or seek reassurance from others is characteristic of OCD. This can create a cycle where the more you engage in these behaviors, the more anxious you feel, leading to further compulsive actions. Additionally, the feelings of hopelessness and thoughts of self-harm indicate that you might also be experiencing depressive symptoms.
It's essential to understand that these mental health conditions are not uncommon, and many people struggle with similar issues. The good news is that effective treatments are available, including therapy and medication. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for both anxiety and OCD. It helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns and develop healthier coping strategies. Exposure and response prevention (ERP), a specific type of CBT, is often used to treat OCD by gradually exposing individuals to their fears in a controlled manner, helping them learn to resist the compulsive behaviors.
Regarding medication, it’s important to consult with a mental health professional who can assess your situation more thoroughly. While you mentioned that you previously took medication (like Prozac) but stopped due to side effects, there are many different medications available, and a psychiatrist can help find one that works for you with manageable side effects. It's not uncommon for individuals to need to try a few different medications before finding the right fit.
In the meantime, there are several self-care strategies you can implement to help manage your anxiety and depressive symptoms:
1. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as meditation, deep breathing exercises, or yoga can help ground you and reduce anxiety levels.
2. Physical Activity: Regular exercise has been shown to improve mood and reduce anxiety. Even a daily walk can make a significant difference.
3. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Eating a balanced diet, getting enough sleep, and avoiding excessive caffeine or alcohol can positively impact your mental health.
4. Social Support: Reach out to friends or family members who can provide support. Sharing your feelings with someone you trust can alleviate some of the burdens you’re carrying.
5. Limit Information Overload: If you find yourself constantly checking information or seeking reassurance, try to set boundaries around this behavior. For example, limit the time you spend researching or asking others for validation.
6. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help you process your emotions and identify patterns in your thinking that may be contributing to your anxiety.
7. Professional Help: As your friend suggested, seeing a psychologist or psychiatrist can provide you with tailored support and treatment options. They can help you explore whether medication is appropriate for you and guide you through therapy.
Remember, reaching out for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. You deserve support and care as you navigate these challenges. It’s important to take the first step and seek professional guidance to help you understand and manage your symptoms effectively. You are not alone in this, and with the right support, you can find relief and improve your quality of life.
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