Do I have emotional issues?
Hello, doctor! At the end of November, during an exchange program organized by my dance group, I was suddenly ostracized by a good friend I've known for 10 years and ten classmates.
After returning from the exchange program, I had exams at school, and it seems my emotions started to have some issues.
Since the end of November, at night when I sleep, I either wake up suddenly or have many dreams.
Sometimes I experience rapid heartbeat, chest discomfort, and headaches.
My walking pace has slowed down significantly compared to before, and I often cry and get angry easily.
Given that I am still experiencing these symptoms, do you think I have an emotional disorder?
kelly, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/01/05
Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello Kelly: Being suddenly excluded by close friends and classmates can be quite distressing, especially when you are unaware of the reasons behind it.
Experiencing vivid dreams, interrupted sleep, and physical symptoms can indeed be related to emotional stress.
It is advisable to talk with family or close friends to discuss solutions and coping strategies.
If the distress continues, seeking medical assistance is recommended.
Wishing you all the best.
Reply Date: 2017/01/05
More Info
Hello! Thank you for reaching out and sharing your experiences. It sounds like you’ve been going through a very challenging time, and it’s important to acknowledge that your feelings are valid. Based on what you’ve described, it seems you may be experiencing symptoms that could be associated with emotional or mental health issues, particularly in response to the stressors you’ve faced recently.
From your account, it appears that the emotional distress began after a significant social event where you felt excluded by friends. This kind of social rejection can be deeply hurtful and may lead to feelings of sadness, anxiety, and even anger. The fact that you are experiencing disrupted sleep, rapid heartbeat, chest discomfort, and headaches could indicate that your body is responding to stress in a physical way. These symptoms are not uncommon when someone is dealing with emotional turmoil or anxiety.
Crying frequently and having a low tolerance for frustration are also signs that your emotional state may be unstable. It’s important to recognize that these feelings can be a natural response to the stress and changes in your social environment. However, if these symptoms persist and interfere with your daily life, it may be indicative of a more serious condition, such as anxiety disorder or depression.
Here are some points to consider regarding your situation:
1. Emotional Awareness: It’s crucial to understand and acknowledge your emotions. Journaling can be a helpful tool to express your feelings and track your emotional state over time. Writing down your thoughts can provide clarity and help you identify patterns in your mood.
2. Sleep Hygiene: Since you mentioned experiencing disrupted sleep, it may be beneficial to establish a calming bedtime routine. This could include activities such as reading, meditating, or practicing relaxation techniques to help ease your mind before sleep.
3. Physical Symptoms: The physical symptoms you’re experiencing, such as rapid heartbeat and chest discomfort, should not be ignored. While they may be stress-related, it’s wise to consult with a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying medical conditions.
4. Social Support: It can be helpful to talk to someone you trust about your feelings. Whether it’s a friend, family member, or a mental health professional, sharing your experiences can provide relief and support.
5. Professional Help: If your symptoms continue or worsen, seeking help from a mental health professional is highly recommended. They can provide a proper assessment and guide you through therapeutic options, which may include counseling or medication if necessary.
6. Coping Strategies: Engaging in activities that you enjoy or that help you relax can be beneficial. This could include exercise, art, music, or any hobby that brings you joy. Physical activity, in particular, is known to help improve mood and reduce anxiety.
7. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as mindfulness meditation, deep breathing exercises, or yoga can help manage stress and improve emotional regulation.
In conclusion, while it’s difficult to definitively say whether you have an emotional disorder based solely on your description, it’s clear that you are experiencing significant emotional distress. It’s essential to take these feelings seriously and consider seeking professional help. Remember, reaching out for support is a sign of strength, and there are resources available to help you navigate through this challenging time. Take care of yourself, and don’t hesitate to seek the help you deserve.
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