Erectile dysfunction
Hello, doctor.
I am 33 years old and recently started dating a girlfriend.
We have engaged in safe sexual activities, but I noticed that whenever we change positions during intercourse, my penis becomes flaccid, causing the process to be interrupted.
Before dating this girlfriend, I had not engaged in sexual activity for six years.
In the past, I would watch adult films and take care of my physiological needs myself, and during that process, I had no issues with penile rigidity.
Currently, I have prostatitis, and I often feel some discomfort in my penis during sexual activity.
I would like to ask if the flaccidity during intercourse could be caused by prostatitis, or if there might be other factors affecting my body.
Six years ago, I weighed about 80 kg and was 183 cm tall; my current weight is approximately 96 kg, with the same height of 183 cm.
Thank you for your response, doctor!
A Ben, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/01/16
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: If there is pain, it will certainly have an impact, so you need to continue treating the inflammation.
In your daily life, avoid alcohol and spicy or irritating foods.
Take a 30-minute walk every day, ensure you get enough sleep, and avoid prolonged sitting.
If there is no improvement after two weeks, you should see a doctor for an examination (in the long term, it is advisable to lose some weight).
Reply Date: 2017/01/16
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common issue that can affect men of all ages, including young men like yourself. Based on your description, there are several potential factors that could be contributing to your difficulties during sexual activity. Let's explore these factors and possible solutions.
Causes of Erectile Dysfunction
1. Psychological Factors: Since you mentioned that you have not engaged in sexual activity for six years prior to your current relationship, psychological factors such as anxiety, stress, or performance pressure could play a significant role. The fear of not being able to perform or concerns about your body image can lead to difficulties in maintaining an erection.
2. Physical Health: You noted that you have prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate gland), which can cause discomfort during sexual activity and may contribute to erectile issues. Prostatitis can lead to pelvic pain, urinary problems, and sexual dysfunction. It is important to address this condition with your healthcare provider, as treating the underlying inflammation may improve your sexual function.
3. Weight and Lifestyle: Your weight has increased from 80 kg to 96 kg over the years. Obesity can lead to various health issues, including hormonal imbalances, reduced blood flow, and increased risk of cardiovascular disease, all of which can contribute to ED. A healthy lifestyle, including regular exercise and a balanced diet, can improve overall health and potentially enhance erectile function.
4. Hormonal Factors: Testosterone levels can affect sexual function. If you have concerns about your hormone levels, it may be worth discussing this with your doctor. They can perform tests to determine if hormonal imbalances are contributing to your symptoms.
5. Medication and Substance Use: If you are taking any medications or using substances (including alcohol), these could also impact erectile function. Some medications can have side effects that include ED, so it’s essential to review any medications with your healthcare provider.
Solutions and Recommendations
1. Consult a Healthcare Provider: It is crucial to discuss your symptoms with a healthcare professional. They can evaluate your prostate health, conduct necessary tests, and provide appropriate treatment options for prostatitis and any other underlying conditions.
2. Psychosexual Therapy: If psychological factors are contributing to your ED, consider seeking therapy. A therapist specializing in sexual health can help you address anxiety, improve communication with your partner, and develop coping strategies.
3. Lifestyle Changes: Focus on adopting a healthier lifestyle. Regular physical activity, a balanced diet, and weight management can significantly improve your overall health and potentially enhance erectile function. Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity each week.
4. Open Communication: Talk openly with your partner about your experiences and feelings. This can help reduce anxiety and create a supportive environment for both of you.
5. Medications: If appropriate, your doctor may prescribe medications that can help with erectile function. These medications work by increasing blood flow to the penis and can be effective for many men.
6. Follow-Up: Regular follow-up with your healthcare provider is essential to monitor your condition and adjust treatment as necessary.
In summary, erectile dysfunction can stem from a combination of psychological and physical factors. Addressing your prostatitis, making lifestyle changes, and seeking professional help can lead to improvements in your sexual health. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many men experience similar challenges. Seeking help is a positive step towards finding a solution.
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