Overwhelmed Thoughts Before Sleep: A Struggle with Anxiety and Numbness - Psychiatry

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Before going to bed, my mind keeps racing with thoughts, and I feel like I'm about to lose my mind and break down?


At the beginning of January, I suddenly experienced chest pain followed by symptoms of numbness throughout my body.
For several days, I intermittently felt numbness in my limbs, which made me very depressed.
I visited the hospital multiple times for examinations and consulted both a cardiologist and a neurologist, who both said there were no issues, except for mild mitral valve prolapse.
The neurologist mentioned it could be autonomic nervous system dysregulation, but I still occasionally experience discomfort, which is frustrating.
Last night, before going to sleep, my mind was racing with thoughts, but I couldn't pinpoint what I was thinking about.
I felt a sense of impending madness and breakdown, which was terrifying; I had never felt this way before.
It felt as if my life was unreal.

AN, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/02/06

Dr. Qiu Junda reply Psychiatry


Hello: It seems that you are experiencing some feelings of unease and anxiety, which have been affecting your life.
I recommend looking into educational materials on emotional management and stress relief to learn some methods for improvement.
If there is no effect, I suggest consulting a mental health professional at a nearby clinic for evaluation and treatment, which should help you improve sooner.

Reply Date: 2017/02/06

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It sounds like you are experiencing a combination of anxiety and physical symptoms that are affecting your sleep and overall well-being. The sensations of numbness and overwhelming thoughts before sleep can be quite distressing, and it’s understandable that you feel overwhelmed by these experiences.

From a medical perspective, the symptoms you describe—such as heart pain, numbness in your limbs, and feelings of unreality—could be linked to anxiety or panic attacks. Anxiety can manifest in various physical symptoms, including heart palpitations, tingling, and a sense of detachment from reality (often referred to as depersonalization or derealization). These symptoms can be alarming, especially when they occur suddenly and without an apparent cause.

You mentioned that you have seen both a cardiologist and a neurologist, and they found no significant issues aside from mild mitral valve prolapse and autonomic nervous system dysregulation. Mitral valve prolapse is relatively common and often does not lead to serious health issues. However, it can sometimes be associated with anxiety symptoms. The autonomic nervous system plays a crucial role in regulating bodily functions, and when it is out of balance, it can lead to symptoms like those you are experiencing.

The overwhelming thoughts before sleep can be particularly challenging. This phenomenon is often exacerbated by anxiety, which can cause a racing mind and difficulty focusing. When you lie down to sleep, the quietness can amplify these thoughts, making it hard to relax. It’s not uncommon for individuals with anxiety to feel as though their thoughts are spiraling out of control, leading to feelings of panic or a sense of losing touch with reality.

To address these issues, consider implementing some strategies that may help calm your mind and improve your sleep quality:
1. Establish a Relaxing Bedtime Routine: Engage in calming activities before bed, such as reading, gentle stretching, or practicing mindfulness meditation. This can help signal to your body that it’s time to wind down.

2. Limit Stimulants: Reduce your intake of caffeine and nicotine, especially in the hours leading up to bedtime, as these can increase anxiety and disrupt sleep.

3. Practice Mindfulness or Meditation: Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or guided imagery can help ground you and reduce feelings of anxiety.

4. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings before bed can help clear your mind. It allows you to express what’s bothering you and may help you process your emotions.

5. Seek Professional Help: If your symptoms persist or worsen, it may be beneficial to consult a mental health professional. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for anxiety and can provide you with tools to manage your thoughts and feelings.

6. Physical Activity: Regular exercise can significantly reduce anxiety levels and improve sleep quality. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week.

7. Sleep Hygiene: Ensure your sleep environment is conducive to rest. This includes a comfortable mattress, a dark and quiet room, and a cool temperature.

It’s important to remember that you are not alone in this struggle, and many people experience similar feelings of anxiety and overwhelming thoughts. Taking proactive steps to manage your anxiety and improve your sleep can lead to significant improvements in your overall well-being. If you continue to feel overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to reach out for support from friends, family, or professionals who can help guide you through this challenging time.

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