STI Risks in Multiple Sexual Relationships - Urology

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Hello, doctor! I have two stable sexual partners, A (my ex-girlfriend) and B (my current girlfriend).
We have all tested negative for any sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
I engage in sexual intercourse with my current girlfriend without a condom (no special preferences) and occasionally have sexual needs with my ex-girlfriend (also without a condom and no special preferences).
Oral sex (female performing on male) is also part of our activities, and we all maintain good hygiene practices.
My question is, should I be concerned about the risk of STIs or HIV? Thank you for your response!

Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/03/19

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


Hello: If, as you say, you have no sexually transmitted infections (STIs), then there will be no transmission of STIs, as long as you maintain cleanliness (but you need to confirm that you have no STIs).
Otherwise, safe sex practices are recommended.
Thank you for your inquiry.

Reply Date: 2017/03/19

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When it comes to understanding the risks of sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, in the context of multiple sexual relationships, it is crucial to consider several factors. Engaging in sexual activities with multiple partners can increase the risk of STIs, even if all parties involved have tested negative for infections at one point in time. Here are some key points to consider:
1. Testing and Timing: While you mentioned that all parties have tested negative for STIs, it is essential to understand that testing is only a snapshot in time. Many STIs, including HIV, can take time to become detectable after exposure. For example, HIV may not be detectable for up to three months after infection. Therefore, regular testing is vital, especially when engaging in sexual activities with multiple partners.

2. Condom Use: You noted that you have had unprotected sex with both your current and former partners. This practice significantly increases the risk of STI transmission. Condoms are effective in reducing the risk of many STIs, including HIV, when used consistently and correctly. It is advisable to use condoms for all sexual encounters, especially with partners whose STI status is unknown or who have multiple partners themselves.

3. Partner Communication: Open and honest communication with your sexual partners about STI testing and sexual history is crucial. Discussing each other's sexual health can help establish trust and reduce anxiety about potential risks. It is also important to encourage your partners to get tested regularly.

4. Hygiene Practices: While you mentioned that you and your partners maintain good hygiene habits, it is important to note that hygiene alone does not prevent the transmission of STIs. Many infections can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact or bodily fluids, regardless of hygiene practices.

5. Risk Assessment: Engaging in sexual activities with multiple partners inherently carries a higher risk of STI transmission. Even if you feel that your partners have a low risk of STIs, it is essential to consider that their sexual history and practices may not be fully known to you. This uncertainty can increase your risk.

6. Regular Health Check-ups: Regular health check-ups and STI screenings are essential for sexually active individuals, especially those with multiple partners. It is recommended to get tested every three to six months, depending on your sexual activity and risk factors.

7. Understanding Symptoms: Be vigilant about any symptoms that may arise, such as unusual discharge, sores, or pain during urination. If you experience any concerning symptoms, seek medical attention promptly.

In conclusion, while you may currently feel healthy and have tested negative for STIs, the nature of multiple sexual relationships does carry inherent risks. To minimize these risks, it is crucial to practice safe sex by using condoms consistently, communicate openly with your partners about sexual health, and engage in regular STI testing. By taking these precautions, you can significantly reduce your risk of contracting STIs, including HIV.

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