I haven't masturbated in a year?
Due to a previous hand injury, I hadn't thought about masturbation for a while.
Recently, when I suddenly wanted to, I found that I felt numb and wanted to ejaculate in about a minute.
Why is this happening, and how can I resolve it?
Nìmíng, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/04/03
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Experiencing heightened sensitivity after a prolonged period without masturbation can be attributed to several physiological and psychological factors. When you abstain from masturbation for an extended time, your body undergoes various changes, particularly in terms of sexual arousal and sensitivity.
Firstly, the physiological aspect involves the buildup of sexual tension. During the period of abstinence, your body continues to produce testosterone and other hormones associated with sexual arousal. This accumulation can lead to increased sensitivity when you finally engage in sexual activity or masturbation again. Essentially, your body may be responding to the sudden release of pent-up sexual energy, resulting in heightened sensations.
Secondly, psychological factors play a significant role. After a year without masturbation, your brain may have developed a heightened anticipation or excitement regarding sexual activity. This mental buildup can amplify physical sensations, making you feel more sensitive than you might have before your abstinence. The brain's reward system, which is activated during sexual arousal, can also contribute to this heightened sensitivity. When you finally engage in sexual activity, the brain releases dopamine and other neurotransmitters that enhance pleasure, making the experience feel more intense.
To address this increased sensitivity, consider the following strategies:
1. Gradual Reintroduction: If you find that your sensitivity is overwhelming, try reintroducing masturbation gradually. Start with shorter sessions and allow your body to adjust to the sensations without overwhelming it.
2. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Engaging in mindfulness practices can help you become more attuned to your body's responses. Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or progressive muscle relaxation can help you manage heightened sensitivity and anxiety related to sexual activity.
3. Experiment with Different Techniques: Explore various techniques or forms of stimulation to find what feels comfortable and pleasurable for you. This exploration can help you regain control over your sensitivity and enhance your overall sexual experience.
4. Communication: If you are engaging in sexual activity with a partner, open communication about your experiences and feelings can help both of you navigate any changes in sensitivity. This dialogue can foster understanding and intimacy.
5. Consult a Professional: If your sensitivity continues to be a concern or if it leads to discomfort, consider consulting a healthcare professional or a sex therapist. They can provide personalized guidance and support tailored to your specific situation.
In conclusion, heightened sensitivity after a year without masturbation is a natural response of your body and mind to the changes that have occurred during your abstinence. By gradually reintroducing sexual activity, practicing mindfulness, and communicating openly, you can effectively manage this sensitivity and enhance your sexual experiences. Remember, every individual's body is unique, and finding what works best for you may take some time and experimentation.
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