Is a burning sensation in the tongue related to the mind and body?
In the past year, I have frequently experienced a burning sensation on my tongue.
When I visited an otolaryngologist, they prescribed B vitamins and mentioned that if the condition does not improve, it might be an immune issue.
This has made me concerned about my health and the need for a check-up, which makes me anxious.
The doctor often asks if I am under stress, so could this also be a psychosomatic issue? I realize that I often exhibit people-pleasing behavior in my interactions with others.
As I get older, I find it exhausting to express my own needs, feeling guilty about it.
Yet, I feel like I am carrying everything on my own and can barely hold on.
I really want to give up, but I can't seem to do it.
I always prepare ten for others, but I seem to automatically become very sensitive to their needs.
Sometimes, I wish I could just not see or hear anything.
How can I help myself live better? Thank you.
soul, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/06/18
Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello: Living honestly and authentically should be the most comfortable and least mentally exhausting way to live.
The desire to please others while neglecting one's true feelings may stem from certain psychological factors.
Perhaps one can try to explore what exactly is causing the worry and why expressing one's needs brings about feelings of guilt.
Additionally, why does helping others lead to a sense of grievance? It may be helpful to take some time to reflect on these questions.
If the distress continues, seeking medical advice or engaging in psychological counseling or therapy could be beneficial.
Wishing you all the best.
Reply Date: 2017/06/18
More Info
Burning tongue, or glossodynia, can indeed be linked to various physical and psychological factors, including mental health issues. Your experience of a burning sensation on your tongue, along with the feelings of anxiety and pressure you described, suggests that there may be a connection between your physical symptoms and your mental state.
Firstly, it’s important to understand that burning tongue syndrome can have multiple causes. These can range from nutritional deficiencies (such as vitamin B12, folate, or iron deficiencies), hormonal changes, allergic reactions, oral infections, or even conditions like dry mouth (xerostomia). However, psychological factors, particularly stress and anxiety, can also contribute to or exacerbate this condition. Stress can lead to changes in your body’s chemistry and immune response, which may manifest as physical symptoms, including a burning sensation in the mouth.
From your description, it seems that you are experiencing significant stress related to interpersonal interactions and a tendency to prioritize others' needs over your own. This pattern of behavior, often referred to as "people-pleasing," can lead to feelings of resentment, burnout, and anxiety. When you constantly suppress your own needs and desires to accommodate others, it can create internal conflict and emotional distress, which may manifest physically as symptoms like burning tongue.
Moreover, the guilt you feel when expressing your needs is a common experience for many individuals who struggle with assertiveness. This guilt can stem from a fear of rejection or a belief that your needs are less important than those of others. Over time, this can lead to chronic stress, which may further exacerbate physical symptoms, including those affecting your oral health.
To address these issues, it is crucial to adopt a holistic approach that encompasses both physical and mental health. Here are some strategies that may help:
1. Seek Professional Help: Consulting with a healthcare provider, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, can provide you with tools to manage anxiety and stress. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is particularly effective in addressing negative thought patterns and behaviors associated with anxiety.
2. Nutritional Assessment: Since nutritional deficiencies can contribute to burning tongue, consider consulting a nutritionist or your primary care physician for a comprehensive evaluation. They may recommend dietary changes or supplements to address any deficiencies.
3. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as mindfulness meditation, deep breathing exercises, or yoga can help reduce stress and improve your overall mental well-being. These techniques can also enhance your awareness of your own needs and feelings, making it easier to express them without guilt.
4. Assertiveness Training: Learning to communicate your needs effectively and assertively can help you feel more empowered in your relationships. This can reduce feelings of guilt and resentment, leading to improved mental health.
5. Journaling: Keeping a journal can be an effective way to process your thoughts and feelings. Writing about your experiences can help clarify your needs and reduce anxiety related to interpersonal interactions.
6. Social Support: Surround yourself with supportive friends or family members who encourage you to express your needs. Engaging in open conversations about your feelings can help alleviate the burden of carrying them alone.
7. Regular Check-ups: Since you mentioned concerns about your overall health, regular medical check-ups can help monitor any physical symptoms and ensure that they are not indicative of a more serious underlying condition.
In conclusion, while burning tongue can have various causes, your mental health and stress levels are significant factors that should not be overlooked. By addressing both your physical and psychological needs, you can work towards alleviating your symptoms and improving your overall quality of life. Remember, it’s essential to prioritize your well-being and seek help when needed.
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