Can My Girlfriend Get Pregnant? Ovulation and Risks

Can I get pregnant?

Doctor, I would like to ask you about my girlfriend's menstrual cycle, which is usually 30 to 32 days with a period lasting about 7 days.
This month, her period lasted 9 days.
We had intercourse on August 9 and August 11, but there was no penetration.
The mobile app indicates that ovulation days are on the 16th and 17th.
On the afternoon of the 15th and 16th, my girlfriend mentioned feeling like she had wet her pants and noticed some discharge.
I'm unsure if this was before or on the day of ovulation.
I'm worried that after I masturbated and we embraced, could a small amount of semen lead to her pregnancy? I have some questions for you:
Q1: If my penis head touches her vulva or vaginal opening after ejaculation, could a small amount of semen cause her to become pregnant?
Q2: If I ejaculate in her mouth and then kiss her before performing oral sex on her, could that lead to her pregnancy?
Q3: Based on the activities we engaged in, is there a possibility of her becoming pregnant?
Q4: Is the sensation of feeling like she wet herself and the discharge occurring before ovulation, on the day of ovulation, or after ovulation?

Chen, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/08/18

Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

My girlfriend's menstrual cycle usually lasts 30 to 32 days, with a period of about 7 days.
This month, her period lasted for 9 days.
We had intercourse on August 9 and August 11, but there was no penetration.
The mobile app indicates that ovulation days are on the 16th and 17th.
On the afternoon of the 15th or 16th, my girlfriend mentioned feeling like she had wet her pants and noticed some discharge.
I'm unsure if this was before or on the day of ovulation, and I'm worried that after I helped her with masturbation and we hugged, could the small amount of semen lead to pregnancy? I have some questions for the doctor:
Q1: If the glans of my penis touches her vulva or vaginal opening after ejaculation, could the small amount of semen cause her to become pregnant?
A: No, it will not cause her to become pregnant.
Q2: If I ejaculate in her mouth and then kiss her before performing oral sex on her, could that lead to pregnancy?
A: No, it will not cause her to become pregnant.
Q3: Based on the activities we've engaged in, is there a possibility of her becoming pregnant?
A: No, it will not cause her to become pregnant.
Q4: Is the feeling of wetness and the discharge she experienced before ovulation, on the day of ovulation, or after ovulation?
A: It is before ovulation.

Reply Date: 2017/08/18

More Info

When it comes to understanding the risks of pregnancy, especially in the context of your girlfriend's menstrual cycle and recent sexual activity, it's important to consider several factors.

Understanding the Menstrual Cycle and Ovulation
Your girlfriend's menstrual cycle typically lasts between 30 to 32 days, with her period lasting about 7 days. Ovulation usually occurs around the midpoint of the cycle, which in her case would be approximately 14 to 16 days after the first day of her last period. If her last period ended on August 7, ovulation would likely occur around August 21 to 23. However, you mentioned that her app indicated ovulation on the 16th and 17th, which could also be accurate depending on her individual cycle variations.

Risks of Pregnancy from Sexual Activity
1. Contact with Semen:
- Q1: If you have ejaculation and then your penis comes into contact with her vulva or vaginal opening, there is a risk of pregnancy. Even a small amount of semen can contain sperm, and if it comes into contact with the vaginal area, it can potentially lead to pregnancy, especially if this occurs around her ovulation period.

2. Oral Sex and Kissing:
- Q2: If you ejaculate in her mouth and then kiss her before engaging in oral sex, the risk of pregnancy is virtually nonexistent. Sperm must enter the vaginal canal to result in pregnancy, and the oral cavity does not provide a pathway for sperm to reach the vagina.

3. Overall Risk Assessment:
- Q3: Based on the activities you've described—ejaculation near her vulva and oral sex—the primary concern for pregnancy arises from the first scenario. If ejaculation occurred close to her vaginal area, especially during her fertile window, there is a risk of pregnancy. However, if ejaculation was only in her mouth and no contact was made with her vaginal area afterward, the risk is negligible.

4. Understanding Discharge and Ovulation:
- Q4: The sensation of needing to urinate and the presence of discharge can be indicative of ovulation. Around ovulation, women often experience an increase in cervical mucus, which can be clear and stretchy, resembling egg whites. This is a sign of fertility. If your girlfriend experienced this sensation and discharge around the time of her predicted ovulation, it could suggest that she was indeed in her fertile window.

Conclusion
In summary, while there is a risk of pregnancy if semen comes into contact with her vaginal area, the risk is significantly lower if ejaculation occurs in the mouth and there is no subsequent contact with the vagina. It is essential to communicate openly with your girlfriend about these concerns and consider using reliable contraception methods to reduce the risk of unintended pregnancy in the future. If there are any doubts or concerns about potential pregnancy, it is advisable for her to take a pregnancy test or consult with a healthcare provider for further guidance.
Understanding the menstrual cycle and the timing of ovulation is crucial for both partners to make informed decisions regarding sexual activity and pregnancy prevention.

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