Can You Get Pregnant? Common Concerns About Ovulation and Conception

Is it possible to be pregnant?

Doctor, I would like to ask you about my girlfriend's menstrual cycle, which is usually 30 to 32 days with a duration of about 7 days.
This month, her period lasted for 9 days.
We had intercourse on August 9 and August 11, but there was no penetration.
The mobile app indicates that ovulation days are on the 16th and 17th.
It seems that around noon on the 15th and 16th, my girlfriend mentioned she felt like she had wet her pants and noticed some discharge.
I'm unsure if this was before ovulation or on the day of ovulation.
I am worried that after I masturbated and we embraced, the small amount of semen might have come into contact with her vulva, potentially leading to pregnancy.
She has been experiencing bloating lately due to her concerns.
I would like to consult you, doctor.
Q1: If the glans of my penis touches her vulva or vaginal opening after ejaculation, could a small amount of semen cause her to become pregnant?
Q2: If I ejaculate in her mouth and then kiss her before performing oral sex on her, could that lead to pregnancy?
Q3: Based on the activities we engaged in, is there a possibility of her becoming pregnant?
Q4: Is the sensation of feeling like she wet her pants and the discharge occurring before ovulation, on the day of ovulation, or after ovulation?
Q5: Is bloating related to pregnancy?
Q6: Doctor, should I be concerned that she might be pregnant?

Huang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/08/23

Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

My girlfriend's menstrual cycle usually lasts 30 to 32 days, with a period of about 7 days.
This month, her period lasted 9 days.
It ended on August 7, and we had intercourse on August 9 and August 11, but there was no penetration.
The mobile app indicates that ovulation days are on the 16th and 17th.
It seems that around noon on the 15th or 16th, my girlfriend mentioned she felt like she had to urinate and noticed some discharge.
I'm unsure if this was before or on the day of ovulation.
I'm worried that after I masturbated, and we hugged, a small amount of semen might have touched her vulva, potentially leading to pregnancy.
She has been experiencing bloating lately due to her concerns, so I consulted a doctor.
Q1: If the glans of my penis touches her vulva or vaginal opening after ejaculation, could a small amount of semen cause her to become pregnant?
A: No, she will not become pregnant.
Q2: If I ejaculate in her mouth and then kiss her before performing oral sex on her, could that lead to pregnancy?
A: No, she will not become pregnant.
Q3: Based on the activities we've engaged in, is there a risk of pregnancy?
A: No, she will not become pregnant.
Q4: Is the feeling of needing to urinate and the discharge occurring before ovulation, on the day of ovulation, or after ovulation?
A: It is before ovulation.
Q5: Is bloating related to pregnancy?
A: No, it is not related.
Q6: Doctor, should I be worried that she might be pregnant?
A: There is no need to worry about her becoming pregnant.

Reply Date: 2017/08/23

More Info

When it comes to concerns about pregnancy, ovulation, and conception, it's essential to understand the biological processes involved and the factors that can influence them. Let's address your questions one by one.

Q1: Can a small amount of semen on the vulva lead to pregnancy?
Yes, it is possible, albeit unlikely, for pregnancy to occur if semen comes into contact with the vulva or vaginal opening. Sperm can swim and may enter the vagina, leading to potential fertilization. However, the likelihood of this happening from just a small amount of semen is relatively low, especially if there was no direct ejaculation inside the vagina.

Q2: Can oral sex followed by kissing lead to pregnancy?
No, pregnancy cannot occur from oral sex, even if there is a transfer of semen from the mouth to the vagina through kissing. Sperm must enter the vagina directly to have a chance of fertilizing an egg. Therefore, this scenario does not pose a risk for pregnancy.

Q3: Based on the activities described, is there a risk of pregnancy?
From what you've described, the risk of pregnancy is low. If there was no direct ejaculation inside the vagina, the chances are minimal. However, if there was any direct contact with semen on the vulva, there is a slight possibility, but it is not significant. If your girlfriend is concerned about pregnancy, a home pregnancy test can provide clarity if her period is delayed.

Q4: What does the feeling of needing to urinate and the presence of discharge indicate?
The sensation of needing to urinate and changes in vaginal discharge can occur around the time of ovulation. Typically, during ovulation, women may experience an increase in clear, stretchy cervical mucus, which can resemble egg whites. This is a sign of fertility and indicates that ovulation is approaching or occurring. If your girlfriend experienced this sensation around the expected ovulation days (15th and 16th), it could be related to her ovulation cycle.

Q5: Is bloating related to pregnancy?
Bloating can be a symptom of early pregnancy, but it is also common for many other reasons, including hormonal changes, diet, stress, or even premenstrual symptoms. If your girlfriend is experiencing bloating and is concerned about pregnancy, it would be wise for her to take a pregnancy test if her period is late.

Q6: Should you be worried about her becoming pregnant?
While it's natural to have concerns, based on the activities you've described, the likelihood of pregnancy seems low. However, if either of you is worried about potential pregnancy, it’s always best to consult with a healthcare provider for personalized advice and to discuss contraceptive options for the future.

In conclusion, understanding the menstrual cycle, ovulation, and how conception occurs can help alleviate some of the anxiety surrounding pregnancy concerns. If you or your girlfriend have ongoing worries or questions about fertility or contraception, consider reaching out to a healthcare professional for guidance. They can provide more tailored advice based on your specific circumstances.

Similar Q&A

Understanding Pregnancy Risks on Ovulation Days: Key Insights

If you had unprotected intercourse on the day indicated as ovulation day in your menstrual tracking app, the likelihood of pregnancy is relatively high. During ovulation, an egg is released from the ovary and is available for fertilization, which increases the chances of concepti...

Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Having unprotected intercourse on the day of ovulation significantly increases the likelihood of pregnancy.

Can I Get Pregnant? Understanding Ovulation and Pregnancy Risks

1. Based on your menstrual cycle history, ovulation can be estimated around November 25th, but it may vary. 2. The likelihood of pregnancy from genital rubbing without penetration and ejaculation is very low, but not zero. 3. It's common to feel anxious about pregnancy, es...

Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello, the irregularity of your menstrual cycle recently means that this ovulation period may not necessarily occur early or on time. There is still a chance of conception even if ejaculation does not occur, as pre-ejaculatory fluid may contain sperm. Early pregnancy does not alw...

Trying to Conceive: Common Questions and Concerns for Future Moms

Hello, Doctor: 1. It has been over a year since we got married, and we only started trying to conceive without contraception after this summer. We have been trying since August, but there has been no news yet. I am currently using ovulation test strips to monitor ovulation. I h...

Dr. Xu Junzheng reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
1. Not getting pregnant by August is not considered infertility. 2. A hysterosalpingography is recommended if pregnancy has not occurred after six cycles. 3. It is generally advised to have intercourse on the day of ovulation and then every other day. 4. There is not much differe...

Can You Get Pregnant During Ovulation? Understanding Your Cycle

I have been using my phone to track my menstrual and ovulation cycles. My period is from August 4 to August 9, and my ovulation is around August 19 (according to the app). I had unprotected intercourse with ejaculation around noon on August 18. Is there a chance I could become pr...

Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello, the questioner: There is a possibility of pregnancy even if ejaculation does not occur during intercourse, as pre-ejaculatory fluid may contain sperm. It is advisable to check for pregnancy if your period is more than a week late. Thank you! Wishing you peace and health. D...