Coping Strategies for Severe Depression: Finding Hope and Support - Psychiatry

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Major Depressive Disorder


I often feel very pessimistic and have thought about giving up on life.
I have attempted suicide three times, and now I lack the courage to do so because I have the support and care of my family.
However, sometimes when I'm feeling down, it seems like nothing matters, and I end up hurting myself and crying uncontrollably.
I have been trying hard to improve, but I have only made a little progress.
Currently, I am receiving treatment from Dr.
Hsu Jun-Chi at a mental health clinic.
I would like to know what to do when I'm feeling low.

Zhijie, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2017/08/25

Dr. Wu Enliang reply Psychiatry


Hello, Zhi-Jie: Feeling down is not your fault, nor is it a sign of weakness; it is a sign of illness.
Mental health issues require mental health treatment, and it is important to discuss your concerns with a trusted physician, such as Dr.
Hsu.
If necessary, consider seeking psychological therapy.
Here are some principles to keep in mind:
• Do not set unattainable goals for yourself.

• Do not take on too many heavy responsibilities.

• Prioritize your tasks and focus on what you can accomplish.

• Spend more time with others.

• Engage in activities that bring you joy, relaxation, and comfort.

• Try to maintain a regular daily routine.

• Avoid making major decisions before discussing them with others.

• Do not have overly high or rapid expectations.

• Pay attention to your diet, sleep, and overall lifestyle.

• Maintain your physical health.

• Learn coping skills for daily life.

• Discuss your feelings with others.

• Accept care, encouragement, and support from others.

• Seek help from family and friends when needed.

• Follow the guidance of healthcare professionals.

• Seek medical attention and treatment in a timely manner.

Reply Date: 2017/08/25

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Coping with severe depression can be an incredibly challenging journey, especially when thoughts of self-harm and hopelessness arise. It’s commendable that you are seeking help and that you have the support of your family. This is a crucial first step in navigating through such difficult emotions. Here are some strategies that may help you cope during those low moments:
1. Establish a Routine: Creating a daily routine can provide structure and a sense of normalcy. Even simple tasks like getting out of bed, showering, or eating regular meals can help you feel more grounded. Try to include activities that you enjoy or that give you a sense of accomplishment, no matter how small.

2. Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques: When you feel overwhelmed, mindfulness exercises can help bring your focus back to the present moment. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or guided imagery can reduce anxiety and help you manage your emotions. Apps like Headspace or Calm can be useful for guided meditation.

3. Physical Activity: Exercise has been shown to have a positive impact on mood. Even a short walk outside can help release endorphins, which are natural mood lifters. If you find it hard to motivate yourself, consider starting with just a few minutes of movement each day and gradually increasing it.

4. Creative Expression: Engaging in creative activities such as writing, drawing, or playing music can serve as an emotional outlet. Journaling your thoughts and feelings can also help you process what you’re going through and may provide insights into your emotions.

5. Reach Out for Support: It’s important to communicate with your family and friends about how you’re feeling. Let them know when you’re struggling, and don’t hesitate to ask for help. Sometimes just talking about what you’re going through can alleviate some of the burden.

6. Professional Help: Since you are already seeing a therapist, continue to engage in therapy sessions. Discuss your feelings of hopelessness and self-harm with your therapist. They can provide you with coping strategies tailored to your specific needs and help you work through these feelings in a safe environment.

7. Crisis Resources: If you ever feel like you might harm yourself, it’s crucial to reach out for immediate help. Contact a crisis hotline, a trusted friend, or a mental health professional. In the U.S., the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is available at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) and offers 24/7 support.

8. Limit Negative Influences: Try to identify and limit exposure to negative influences in your life, whether they are people, situations, or even certain media. Surround yourself with supportive and understanding individuals who uplift you.

9. Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate even the smallest achievements. Whether it’s getting out of bed, completing a task, or simply getting through a tough day, recognizing these moments can help build a sense of accomplishment.

10. Educate Yourself: Understanding your condition can empower you. Read about depression, its symptoms, and coping strategies. Knowledge can help demystify your experiences and provide you with tools to manage your feelings.

Remember, recovery from severe depression is often a gradual process, and it’s okay to have setbacks. Be patient with yourself and recognize that seeking help is a sign of strength. You are not alone in this journey, and with the right support and strategies, it is possible to find hope and healing.

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