Assessing STD Risks After Unprotected and Protected Sexual Encounters - Urology

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Is the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection high?


About 25 days ago, I had sexual intercourse with a sex worker in Thailand.
We had vaginal intercourse once and oral sex twice.
During vaginal intercourse, a condom was used, but it was put on by the female partner, and I noticed that she did not pinch the tip of the condom to create a reservoir.
I am concerned about whether this could lead to the condom breaking.
What is the likelihood of that happening? I have seen many people fill condoms with water or inflate them, which makes me think they are quite durable.
Could it really break just because the tip wasn't pinched? If it did break, would the condom still provide any risk-reduction benefits? At the time, the lighting was dim, and since there was no ejaculation during vaginal intercourse, I let the female partner remove the condom without checking for any damage myself.
During vaginal intercourse, we tried both missionary and cowgirl positions, and the female partner climaxed while on top.
After that, there was no further penetration.
I did not ejaculate during the vaginal intercourse.
If the condom did break, what would be the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs)? After that, I engaged in unprotected oral sex and once more with a condom, but the unprotected oral sex was brief, and the female partner did not appear to have any significant oral health issues.
As of now, I feel physically normal and have no problems, but I still have some concerns.

jake, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/02/23

Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology


A physician must not administer treatment, prescribe medication, or provide a diagnosis without a personal examination.
Hello: Any sexual activity that is not considered safe carries risks, so caution is advised.
You can refer to http://www.isu.edu.tw/upload/04/7/news/postfile_60883.pdf.
Engaging in unprotected oral sex poses a moderate risk.

Reply Date: 2018/02/23

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When assessing the risks of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) after engaging in sexual activities, especially with sex workers, it's crucial to consider several factors, including the type of sexual activity, the use of protection, and the health status of both partners.

In your situation, you mentioned that you engaged in vaginal intercourse and oral sex with a sex worker in Thailand. You used a condom during vaginal intercourse, but there were concerns about whether the condom was applied correctly, particularly regarding the reservoir tip. While it is true that condoms are designed to be quite durable, improper application can increase the risk of breakage. If the condom was not pinched at the tip during application, it could potentially lead to a failure in its protective function, although this does not guarantee that it will break.
The likelihood of a condom breaking due to improper application is not extremely high, but it is a risk factor. Condoms are tested for strength and elasticity, and while they can withstand a significant amount of pressure, any factor that compromises their integrity—such as improper application or use of incompatible lubricants—can increase the risk of breakage. If a condom were to break during intercourse, the risk of STD transmission would indeed increase, as the barrier that prevents the exchange of bodily fluids would no longer be effective.

In your case, since you did not ejaculate during vaginal intercourse, the immediate risk of HIV transmission is lower, but it is not zero. The risk of other STDs, such as gonorrhea or chlamydia, can still be present, especially if there was any contact with vaginal fluids. After the vaginal intercourse, you also engaged in unprotected oral sex, which carries its own risks. Oral sex can transmit infections like gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis, and while the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex is generally lower than through vaginal or anal sex, it is still possible, particularly if there are cuts or sores in the mouth.

Given that you are currently feeling well and have not experienced any symptoms, it is a positive sign; however, it is essential to remember that many STDs can be asymptomatic. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends regular testing for sexually active individuals, especially those who engage in high-risk behaviors.

To address your concerns about the timeframe for testing, it is advisable to wait at least three months after potential exposure to get tested for HIV. This is because it can take time for the virus to become detectable in the blood. For other STDs, testing can often be done sooner, but it is best to consult with a healthcare provider for specific recommendations based on your activities.

In conclusion, while the risk of contracting an STD from your described encounters is present, the actual level of risk can vary based on several factors. It is crucial to get tested and to practice safer sex in the future, including the consistent and correct use of condoms, to minimize the risk of STDs. If you have any further concerns or experience any symptoms, do not hesitate to seek medical advice.

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