Can You Get Pregnant from Foreplay? Menstrual Delays

Menstrual issues: Can I get pregnant?

Last Saturday, February 24, I was with my girlfriend.
There was no penetration, but she gave me a hand job, and I ejaculated.
I also used my fingers to stimulate her, but I'm worried that there might be residual semen on my fingers that could lead to pregnancy if it was inserted.
My girlfriend's period was expected around February 27, but as of now, March 4, it still hasn't arrived.
I took a pregnancy test yesterday, March 3, which showed negative.
I'm concerned about the accuracy of the test.
My girlfriend has been under a lot of stress due to various issues last month, and I'm wondering if that could be the reason for her delayed period.
Alternatively, could it be possible that my fingers caused her to become pregnant, which is why her period hasn't come (she has been experiencing breast tenderness and cramping in her abdomen)? Her period is now almost a week late, and I'm feeling quite anxious.

HHHHHH, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/03/04

Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Last Saturday, February 24th, I was with my girlfriend.
There was no penetration, but she gave me a handjob, and I ejaculated.
I also used my fingers to stimulate her, but I'm worried that there might be residual semen on my fingers that could lead to pregnancy if it was inserted.
My girlfriend's period was supposed to arrive around February 27th, but as of now, March 4th, it hasn't come yet.
I took a pregnancy test yesterday, March 3rd, which showed negative.
I'm concerned about the accuracy of the test.
My girlfriend has been under a lot of stress due to various issues last month, and I'm wondering if that could be the reason for her delayed period, or if it could be due to my fingers causing a potential pregnancy, which is why her period hasn't arrived.
(She has been experiencing breast tenderness and a pulling sensation in her abdomen.) However, her period is already nearly a week late...
I'm a bit worried.

Answer: It is likely due to stress that is causing the delayed period.

Reply Date: 2018/03/04

More Info

When it comes to the question of whether you can get pregnant from foreplay, particularly in the context of your recent experiences, it's important to understand the mechanics of conception and the factors that can influence menstrual cycles.

Firstly, pregnancy typically occurs when sperm fertilizes an egg, which usually happens through vaginal intercourse. In your case, since there was no penetration, the risk of pregnancy is significantly lower. However, you mentioned that there was manual stimulation and ejaculation. While the likelihood of sperm being transferred from your hands to your girlfriend's vagina is low, it is not entirely impossible. Sperm can survive for a short time on surfaces and may be transferred if there is direct contact. However, the chances of this leading to pregnancy are minimal, especially if ejaculation did not occur directly in or near the vaginal opening.

Regarding your girlfriend's delayed menstruation, there are several factors to consider. Stress is a well-known factor that can affect the menstrual cycle. High levels of stress can lead to hormonal imbalances, which may delay ovulation and, consequently, menstruation. Given that you mentioned your girlfriend has been under a lot of stress recently, this could very well be the reason for her late period.
Additionally, it is important to note that menstrual cycles can vary from month to month due to various factors, including changes in lifestyle, diet, and emotional well-being. A delay of a few days to a week can be normal for many women, especially if they are experiencing stress or other life changes.

You mentioned that you used a pregnancy test on March 3, which showed a negative result. Home pregnancy tests are generally quite accurate when used correctly, especially if taken after a missed period. However, if your girlfriend's period does not arrive soon, it may be worth repeating the test a few days later or consulting a healthcare provider for further evaluation.

In summary, while the risk of pregnancy from foreplay is low, it is not zero. The delay in your girlfriend's menstruation is likely more related to stress and other factors rather than pregnancy, especially given the negative pregnancy test result. If her period does not come soon, or if she experiences any unusual symptoms, it would be advisable for her to see a healthcare professional for further assessment and peace of mind.
In the future, if you and your girlfriend are considering becoming sexually active, it might be beneficial to discuss contraception options to prevent unintended pregnancies and to ensure both of you feel comfortable and secure in your sexual health.

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