The condition of bipolar disorder?
Hello, Doctor.
I have bipolar disorder and have been on medication for over two years.
Recently, I've noticed an improvement in my depressive symptoms over the past six months (my pace has quickened, and my memory has improved).
I generally feel in control and believe my physical health has also improved.
However, during moments of anger and sadness, I still have an overwhelming urge to harm myself and often find it difficult to resist self-injury.
Is this a normal phenomenon? Thank you!
Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/08/22
Dr. Huang Jiabin reply Psychiatry
Hello: It sounds like your emotional state has reached a point where even when you're feeling down, it doesn't last all day, and this has been occurring for more than two weeks.
The current issue is how to cope with negative emotions (which everyone experiences) without resorting to self-harm.
It seems that in the past, you often used self-harm as a way to manage your emotions, and your body has become accustomed to this method (as it effectively alleviates pain).
Therefore, when you encounter negative feelings, you may instinctively think of self-harm.
I suggest finding non-harmful ways to achieve a similar effect.
For example, instead of cutting, you could wear a red rubber band on your wrist and snap it against your skin to create a similar sensation.
The visual aspect of the rubber band on your wrist also provides a resemblance without causing physical harm.
Alternatively, you could freeze red ink into strips and use them to draw on your wrist; the cold sensation combined with the ink flowing down can be very realistic without causing injury.
(However, I am not aware of the specific methods you use to harm yourself, so I won't mention other exact alternatives.)
Reply Date: 2018/08/22
More Info
Bipolar disorder, also known as manic-depressive illness, is a mental health condition characterized by extreme mood swings that include emotional highs (mania or hypomania) and lows (depression). Managing bipolar disorder effectively requires a comprehensive approach that includes medication, therapy, lifestyle changes, and support from friends and family.
From your description, it appears that you have been managing your bipolar disorder with medication for over two years, and you have noticed improvements in your mood and cognitive functions. This is a positive sign, as effective management of bipolar disorder can lead to significant improvements in quality of life. However, the persistent urges to self-harm during periods of anger or sadness are concerning and warrant further attention.
Self-harm is often a coping mechanism for individuals experiencing intense emotional pain or distress. It can serve as a way to release pent-up feelings or to regain a sense of control when emotions feel overwhelming. While it is not uncommon for individuals with bipolar disorder to experience such urges, it is crucial to address these feelings constructively. Engaging in self-harm is not a healthy or effective way to cope with emotional distress, and it can lead to further complications, both physically and psychologically.
Here are some strategies to help manage your symptoms and reduce the risk of self-harm:
1. Therapeutic Support: Consider seeking therapy, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) or dialectical behavior therapy (DBT). These therapeutic approaches can help you develop healthier coping mechanisms, improve emotional regulation, and address the underlying issues contributing to self-harm urges.
2. Medication Management: Continue to work closely with your psychiatrist or healthcare provider to ensure that your medication regimen is effective. Sometimes, adjustments in medication can help alleviate mood swings and reduce the intensity of self-harm urges.
3. Identify Triggers: Keep a journal to track your moods, triggers, and instances of self-harm. Understanding what situations or feelings lead to these urges can empower you to develop strategies to cope with them more effectively.
4. Develop a Safety Plan: Create a plan for what to do when you feel the urge to self-harm. This might include reaching out to a trusted friend or family member, engaging in a distracting activity, or using grounding techniques to help you stay present and calm.
5. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practices such as mindfulness meditation, deep breathing exercises, and yoga can help you manage stress and improve emotional regulation. These techniques can also provide a sense of calm during difficult moments.
6. Build a Support Network: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who understand your condition and can provide encouragement. Consider joining a support group for individuals with bipolar disorder, where you can share experiences and coping strategies.
7. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Regular physical activity, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can significantly impact your mood and overall well-being. Establishing a routine that includes these elements can help stabilize your mood.
8. Emergency Resources: If you ever feel that you are in immediate danger of harming yourself, it is crucial to seek help right away. Contact a mental health crisis hotline, go to the nearest emergency room, or reach out to a trusted individual who can assist you.
In conclusion, while experiencing urges to self-harm can be a part of your journey with bipolar disorder, it is essential to address these feelings with appropriate strategies and support. Remember that you are not alone, and there are resources available to help you navigate these challenges. Your mental health is a priority, and taking proactive steps can lead to a healthier and more fulfilling life.
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