Delayed Periods: Pregnancy Concerns and Other Factors

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Hello doctor, my girlfriend and I had sexual intercourse twice on July 28th (which was the second-to-last day of her period).
We used condoms both times, there was no ejaculation inside, and the condoms did not break.
I ejaculated on my hand, and we cleaned up thoroughly with a large amount of wet wipes and tissue.
According to her app, her period was supposed to arrive on August 20th, but as of today, August 23rd, her period still hasn't come.
In the past, it has only been delayed by one or two days at most, so I'm quite worried since this is the first time it's been delayed for so long.
This month, she has been going to bed later than usual (the earliest being around 11 PM and the latest between 1 AM and 3 AM).
I wonder if her late nights could be the reason for the delay.
Additionally, she had a severe gastrointestinal infection in early August, requiring multiple injections and IV fluids.
Could this be the reason for her missed period, or is there a possibility of pregnancy? She hasn't shown any symptoms of pregnancy, but could anxiety also be a factor in her missed period? Thank you, doctor.

Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/08/23

Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

On July 28, my girlfriend and I had sexual intercourse twice (it was the second to last day of her menstrual period).
We used condoms throughout both encounters, there was no ejaculation inside, and the condoms did not break.
I ejaculated on my hand instead, and we cleaned up thoroughly with a large amount of wet wipes and tissue.
According to her app, her period was expected to arrive on August 20, but as of today, August 23, her period has not come.
In the past, her period has only been delayed by one or two days at most, so I am quite worried since this is the first time it has been delayed for so long.
This month, she has been going to bed later than usual (the earliest being around 11 PM and the latest between 1 AM to 3 AM).
I am wondering if her late sleeping habits could be the reason for the delay.
Additionally, she had a severe gastrointestinal infection in early August, for which she received several injections and IV fluids.
Could this be the reason for her missed period, or is there a possibility of pregnancy? However, she does not exhibit any pregnancy symptoms.
Could it be that her period is delayed due to anxiety?
Answer: Since you used condoms throughout the sexual encounters without any ejaculation inside (ejaculating on your hand), and the condoms did not break, there is no risk of pregnancy.
The delay in her period is likely due to anxiety and her late sleeping habits.

Reply Date: 2018/08/23

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Understanding delayed periods can be a source of anxiety, especially when it comes to concerns about pregnancy. In your case, there are several factors to consider regarding your girlfriend's delayed menstrual cycle.

Firstly, it is important to note that menstrual cycles can be influenced by a variety of factors, including stress, lifestyle changes, and health conditions. In your girlfriend's situation, you mentioned that she has been experiencing late nights, which can disrupt her circadian rhythm and hormonal balance. Sleep deprivation and irregular sleep patterns can indeed affect the menstrual cycle, leading to delays. The body’s hormonal regulation is sensitive to changes in routine, and stress from lack of sleep can exacerbate this issue.

Additionally, you mentioned that she experienced severe gastroenteritis earlier in the month, which required multiple medical interventions, including injections and IV fluids. Illness can significantly impact the menstrual cycle as well. The body prioritizes recovery from illness, and hormonal fluctuations during this time can lead to delayed menstruation. The stress of being unwell can also contribute to changes in her cycle.

Regarding the sexual activity that occurred on July 28, it is reassuring that you used condoms and there was no internal ejaculation. Condoms are a reliable form of contraception when used correctly, and if there were no breakages, the risk of pregnancy is significantly reduced. However, it is important to remember that no contraceptive method is 100% effective, and there is always a small chance of failure.

Given that her period was expected on August 20 and is now delayed by three days, it is understandable to feel concerned. However, it is not uncommon for menstrual cycles to vary occasionally, even for those who typically have regular cycles. If her period does not arrive within the next week, it would be advisable for her to take a home pregnancy test to rule out pregnancy. These tests are generally accurate when taken after a missed period.

If the test is negative and her period still does not arrive, it would be wise for her to consult a healthcare provider. They can evaluate her situation more thoroughly, considering her recent illness, lifestyle changes, and any other factors that may be contributing to the delay. Hormonal imbalances, stress, and other underlying health issues can be assessed through a physical examination and possibly blood tests.

In summary, while the possibility of pregnancy cannot be entirely ruled out, it seems more likely that the combination of stress, lifestyle changes, and recent illness is contributing to the delay in her menstrual cycle. Encourage her to monitor her symptoms, and if her period does not arrive soon, a pregnancy test and a visit to the doctor would be prudent steps to take. It’s important to approach this situation with calmness and to prioritize her health and well-being.

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