Hope to conceive?
Hello Dr.
Huang, I have a question to ask you.
My husband and I are preparing to conceive, but he frequently travels abroad for work, so our time is limited.
My last menstrual period started on September 8, and my cycle is about 28-29 days.
We had intercourse on September 26, and my husband is leaving for a trip afterward.
I would like to know, Dr.
Huang, what are the chances of getting pregnant this time? Based on your opinion, which days would you recommend for us to have intercourse for a better chance of conception? Additionally, we are both 41 years old; will this affect our chances of getting pregnant?
Ling, 40~49 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/09/27
Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
We are planning to conceive, but my husband often travels for work, so our time is limited.
My last menstrual period started on September 8, and my cycle is approximately 28-29 days.
We had intercourse on September 26, and my husband is leaving for a trip afterward.
Therefore, I would like to ask Dr.
Huang about the likelihood of getting pregnant this time.
Answer: The chances of pregnancy are not high based on your situation.
Dr.
Huang, could you suggest which days would be better for intercourse? Additionally, both my husband and I are 41 years old; will this affect our chances of conceiving?
Answer: Being 41 years old will affect your chances of conceiving.
Generally, I would not recommend specific days for intercourse but rather suggest considering in vitro fertilization (IVF).
Reply Date: 2018/09/27
More Info
When considering the optimal timing for pregnancy, especially for couples where both partners are around the age of 41, several factors come into play, including the timing of intercourse relative to the woman's ovulation cycle and the implications of advanced maternal and paternal age on fertility and fetal health.
Firstly, understanding the menstrual cycle is crucial. A typical menstrual cycle lasts about 28-29 days, with ovulation occurring approximately 14 days before the start of the next period. For a woman whose last menstrual period began on September 8, ovulation would likely occur around September 22. Engaging in intercourse on September 26, while still within the fertile window, may still yield a chance for conception, but it is slightly past the peak fertility period, which typically spans the days leading up to and including ovulation.
For couples trying to conceive, it is generally recommended to have intercourse during the fertile window, which is usually the five days leading up to ovulation and the day of ovulation itself. In your case, aiming for intercourse between September 18 and September 22 would have maximized your chances of conception. However, sperm can survive in the female reproductive tract for up to five days, so having intercourse on September 26 could still result in pregnancy if ovulation occurred later than expected.
Now, regarding the age factor, both maternal and paternal ages can significantly influence fertility and pregnancy outcomes. Women in their 40s may experience a decline in fertility due to a decrease in the quantity and quality of eggs. The risk of chromosomal abnormalities, such as Down syndrome, also increases with maternal age. For men, while the decline in fertility is less pronounced than in women, advanced paternal age has been associated with an increased risk of genetic mutations and conditions such as autism and schizophrenia in offspring.
Given that both partners are 41, it is advisable to consult with a fertility specialist if conception does not occur within a few months of trying. They can provide guidance on fertility assessments and potential interventions, such as in vitro fertilization (IVF) or other assisted reproductive technologies, which may enhance the chances of conception.
In summary, while your chances of conceiving from the intercourse on September 26 are not zero, they are likely lower than if you had timed intercourse closer to ovulation. For future attempts, consider tracking ovulation more closely using methods such as ovulation predictor kits or monitoring basal body temperature. Additionally, given your ages, it may be beneficial to seek medical advice to understand any potential risks and to explore options that could support a healthy pregnancy.
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