Oral sex
Engaging in sexual activity with a stranger, where oral sex was attempted but declined, and the partner still made contact with the urethral opening using their tongue, carries some risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
However, since you used a condom during the subsequent sexual intercourse, the risk of transmission for many STIs is significantly reduced.
The primary concern would be the potential for infections that can be transmitted through oral contact, such as herpes or gonorrhea, especially if there were any cuts or sores in the mouth of the partner.
It is advisable to consult a healthcare provider for further evaluation and possible STI testing based on your specific circumstances.
Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2018/10/14
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: Oral sex carries a moderate risk.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2018/10/14
More Info
When assessing the risk of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) after oral contact, particularly in the scenario you've described, it's important to consider several factors, including the type of sexual activities involved, the presence of any injuries or open wounds, and the overall health status of both partners.
In your case, you mentioned that the woman licked your urethral opening, which is considered a form of oral sex. Oral sex can carry a moderate risk for STDs, including HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis. The risk level can vary based on several factors:
1. Presence of STDs: The primary risk factor is whether the woman has any STDs. If she is infected with an STD, the likelihood of transmission increases significantly, especially if there are any cuts or sores in the mouth or on the genital area.
2. Type of Contact: Oral contact with the urethra can expose you to bodily fluids, which may contain pathogens. However, since you mentioned that the subsequent sexual intercourse was protected with a condom, this significantly reduces the risk of transmission for most STDs during that act.
3. Injuries or Open Wounds: If there were any open sores or bleeding gums in your mouth, this could increase the risk of transmission. You did not mention any injuries, but if there were any, it would be wise to consider that in your risk assessment.
4. Other Factors: Factors such as the presence of other infections, the immune status of both partners, and the overall health can also influence the risk of transmission.
Given these considerations, the risk of contracting an STD from the oral contact you described is moderate, especially if the woman is healthy and does not have any STDs. However, it is essential to remember that while the risk is not negligible, it is lower compared to unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse.
Recommendations:
1. Testing: It is advisable to get tested for STDs after any new sexual encounter, especially if there was any form of unprotected contact. The timing for testing can vary depending on the specific STD. For example, some tests can be done as early as two weeks after exposure, while others may require a wait of three months for accurate results.
2. Monitoring Symptoms: Keep an eye on any symptoms that may arise, such as unusual discharge, sores, or any other signs of infection. If you experience any concerning symptoms, seek medical attention promptly.
3. Consult a Healthcare Provider: If you have ongoing concerns about your risk or mental health regarding this encounter, consider speaking with a healthcare provider. They can provide personalized advice and support.
4. Mental Health: It's common to feel anxious after a sexual encounter, especially if it involved new partners or unprotected contact. Engaging in open conversations with trusted friends or professionals can help alleviate anxiety. Practicing stress-reduction techniques such as mindfulness, exercise, or talking to a counselor can also be beneficial.
In conclusion, while there is a moderate risk associated with the oral contact you described, the use of a condom during subsequent intercourse significantly reduces the risk of STD transmission. Regular testing and open communication with healthcare providers can help manage and mitigate these risks effectively.
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