Could Fingering and Stress Delay My Girlfriend's Period? - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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Is there a chance of getting pregnant this way?


On February 15th of this year, I engaged in foreplay with my girlfriend.
There was no penetration, and I did not use a condom.
The most I did was insert my fingers into her vagina, and later she helped me ejaculate.
My fingers may have come into contact with semen, but I wiped them with tissue and washed my hands.
However, I did insert my fingers into her vagina afterward (I am unsure if it was during her ovulation period).
Is there a possibility of her becoming pregnant?
She had her period in January, but she has not had it since February, and as of now (March 18th), it still hasn't arrived.
She has experienced breast tenderness, but her period is still delayed.
Recently, she has been under a lot of stress due to studying for exams and has been staying up late.
Could the delay in her period be related to stress, or could it be connected to that instance of finger insertion? Please help me understand, thank you!

chia, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/03/18

Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


Hello, based on your description, there is a possibility of pregnancy.
However, it is not possible to determine whether you are pregnant based solely on subjective symptoms.
If your period is more than a week late or if you are uncertain, it is advisable to consult a gynecologist for confirmation.
Thank you! Wishing you peace and health, Dr.
Chang.

Reply Date: 2019/03/18

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The situation you described regarding your girlfriend's delayed period raises several important points to consider. First and foremost, it’s essential to understand the potential for pregnancy and the influence of stress on menstrual cycles.

From a medical perspective, while the risk of pregnancy from fingering is generally low, it is not entirely impossible. If your fingers had come into contact with semen and then were inserted into your girlfriend's vagina, there is a theoretical risk of sperm being introduced, especially if it occurred around her ovulation period. However, the likelihood of this leading to pregnancy is significantly lower compared to penetrative intercourse, particularly if there was no direct ejaculation into the vagina.

Regarding the delay in her menstrual cycle, stress is a well-known factor that can affect menstrual regularity. The body’s response to stress can lead to hormonal changes that may delay ovulation and, consequently, menstruation. Factors such as academic pressures, changes in sleep patterns, and emotional distress can all contribute to this phenomenon. It’s not uncommon for women to experience irregular periods during times of significant stress or lifestyle changes.

In your girlfriend's case, the combination of stress from exams and the potential hormonal fluctuations could very well explain the delay in her period. Additionally, the physical symptoms she is experiencing, such as breast tenderness (often referred to as "breast fullness"), can also be associated with premenstrual syndrome (PMS) or hormonal changes rather than pregnancy alone.

If her period does not arrive soon, it would be advisable for her to take a home pregnancy test to rule out pregnancy definitively. These tests are generally accurate if taken after a missed period. If the test is negative and her period still does not come, it would be wise for her to consult a healthcare provider. A doctor can help assess her situation further, considering factors such as stress levels, lifestyle, and any underlying health issues that may be affecting her menstrual cycle.

In summary, while there is a slight possibility of pregnancy due to the circumstances you described, it is more likely that stress and lifestyle factors are contributing to her delayed period. Encouraging her to manage stress through relaxation techniques, regular exercise, and a balanced diet may help regulate her menstrual cycle. If concerns persist, seeking medical advice is the best course of action to ensure her health and peace of mind.

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