How to treat vaginal laxity?
I have naturally given birth to two children, but my husband and I always feel no sensation during intercourse, which causes unhappiness between us.
I am considering surgery that could enhance our pleasure as a couple.
Will it be painful? How long is the recovery time?
Xiao Fang, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2000/12/01
Dr. Wang Hanzhou reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
"Relaxation" is not the primary factor for an unsatisfactory sex life, so it is important to consider whether vaginal reconstruction can address your issues.
The duration of pain varies from person to person, and it can last from 3-5 days to even a month.
Reply Date: 2000/12/01
More Info
Vaginal relaxation after childbirth is a common concern for many women, especially those who have given birth multiple times. It can lead to decreased sexual satisfaction for both partners, as you have experienced. Here, I will discuss effective treatments for vaginal relaxation, including surgical options, pain management, and recovery time.
Non-Surgical Treatments
Before considering surgery, it is essential to explore non-surgical options. Pelvic floor exercises, commonly known as Kegel exercises, can help strengthen the pelvic muscles, which may improve vaginal tone and enhance sexual satisfaction. These exercises involve repeatedly contracting and relaxing the muscles that control urination. Regular practice can lead to significant improvements over time.
Additionally, vaginal weights or cones can be used to help strengthen the pelvic floor. These devices are inserted into the vagina, and the user must contract their pelvic muscles to keep the weights in place. This method can be effective for some women in improving muscle tone.
Another non-invasive option is the use of vaginal rejuvenation treatments, which may include laser therapy. These treatments aim to stimulate collagen production and improve vaginal elasticity. While results can vary, many women report positive outcomes regarding sensation and comfort during intercourse.
Surgical Treatments
If non-surgical methods do not yield satisfactory results, surgical options may be considered. One common procedure is vaginoplasty, which involves tightening the vaginal canal and surrounding tissues. This surgery can enhance sexual sensation for both partners. Another option is labiaplasty, which focuses on reshaping the labia and may also contribute to improved comfort and aesthetics.
Pain Management and Recovery
Concerns about pain during and after surgery are valid. The level of discomfort experienced varies from person to person. Generally, patients can expect some pain and swelling post-surgery, which can be managed with prescribed pain medications. Most women report that the pain is manageable and subsides within a few days to a week.
Recovery time also varies depending on the individual and the specific procedure performed. Typically, patients are advised to avoid sexual intercourse for at least 4 to 6 weeks post-surgery to allow for proper healing. During this time, it is crucial to follow your surgeon's post-operative care instructions to minimize complications and promote healing.
Emotional and Psychological Considerations
It is essential to address the emotional aspects of vaginal relaxation and its impact on your relationship. Open communication with your partner about your feelings and concerns can help foster understanding and intimacy. Consulting with a therapist or counselor specializing in sexual health may also be beneficial.
Conclusion
In summary, there are several effective treatments for vaginal relaxation after childbirth, ranging from non-surgical options like pelvic floor exercises and vaginal rejuvenation to surgical interventions such as vaginoplasty. Pain management is typically effective, and recovery times can vary. It is crucial to have thorough discussions with your healthcare provider to determine the best course of action tailored to your specific needs and circumstances. Remember, addressing both the physical and emotional aspects of this issue is vital for restoring satisfaction in your sexual relationship.
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