Regarding gonorrhea and sexual partners?
First explanation: On April 9, I engaged in unprotected sexual intercourse with another person.
On April 15, I experienced painful urination and visited a urologist.
Due to the presence of pus in the urethra, the doctor diagnosed me with gonorrhea and administered an antibiotic injection (the physician who examined me stated that one injection would suffice for recovery).
Second explanation: On April 13, I did not have sexual intercourse with my wife; I only performed oral sex and ejaculated in her mouth (without swallowing).
However, my wife developed a high fever from April 16 to April 18 that did not subside, and she also complained of a severe sore throat.
After consulting an otolaryngologist, she was initially diagnosed with adenovirus and was treated with antibiotics.
Later, I discussed the situation with my urologist, who suggested that we should observe the situation.
He expressed concern about potential family discord and was uncertain about the next steps to take.
I found online information indicating that untreated gonorrhea could lead to antibiotic resistance.
Aqi, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/04/18
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: Oral sex does carry a risk of transmission, but other infections such as viral infections cannot be ruled out.
If you do not mention the previous situation (gonorrhea - oral sex with your wife) to the physician when discussing treatment, the doctor will likely prescribe the most commonly used medication, which may not be targeted.
The best course of action is to seek help from an Ear, Nose, and Throat (ENT) specialist if symptoms persist.
Be sure to explain the situation clearly for a more effective evaluation.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2019/04/18
More Info
Gonorrhea, caused by the bacterium Neisseria gonorrhoeae, is a sexually transmitted infection (STI) that can significantly impact both the infected individual and their sexual partners. Understanding its transmission, symptoms, and potential complications is crucial for managing the infection and preventing its spread.
Transmission and Symptoms
Gonorrhea is primarily transmitted through sexual contact, including vaginal, anal, and oral sex. It can infect the urethra, throat, and rectum. In your case, you experienced symptoms such as painful urination and discharge, which are common indicators of a gonorrhea infection. It's important to note that many individuals may be asymptomatic, particularly women, which can lead to undiagnosed infections and further transmission.
In your situation, you mentioned engaging in oral sex with your wife after your exposure. While the risk of transmitting gonorrhea through oral sex is lower than through vaginal or anal intercourse, it is still possible. If your wife developed symptoms such as a sore throat and fever shortly after your encounter, it raises the concern of potential transmission, even if you did not have penetrative intercourse.
Impact on Sexual Partners
The impact of gonorrhea on sexual partners can vary. If your wife was indeed infected, she may experience symptoms similar to yours, or she might remain asymptomatic. This asymptomatic nature can complicate the situation, as she may unknowingly transmit the infection to others or develop complications if the infection is not treated.
Treatment and Follow-Up
You received a single injection of antibiotics, which is a common treatment for gonorrhea. However, it is essential to ensure that both partners are treated simultaneously to prevent reinfection. If your wife is experiencing symptoms, she should be evaluated and treated as well. The use of antibiotics should be guided by a healthcare professional, as there are concerns about antibiotic resistance in gonorrhea strains.
Communication and Relationship Considerations
Given the sensitive nature of STIs, open communication with your wife is crucial. Discussing your diagnosis and the potential implications for her health can help both of you navigate this situation more effectively. It’s understandable to be concerned about the impact on your relationship, but addressing the issue together can strengthen your bond.
Prevention and Future Considerations
To prevent future infections, consider the following:
1. Regular STI Testing: Both partners should undergo regular STI screenings, especially if engaging in sexual activities with new partners.
2. Safe Sex Practices: Using condoms can significantly reduce the risk of transmitting STIs, including gonorrhea.
3. Education: Understanding STIs, their symptoms, and transmission can empower both partners to make informed decisions about their sexual health.
Conclusion
Gonorrhea is a serious infection that requires prompt treatment and communication between partners. If your wife is experiencing symptoms, she should seek medical attention as soon as possible. Both of you should be treated to prevent further complications and ensure a healthy sexual relationship moving forward. Remember, addressing sexual health openly can foster trust and understanding in your relationship.
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