Am I at Risk of HIV or STDs from Casual Encounters? - Internal Medicine

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Doctor, will this lead to an infection of HIV, syphilis, or other sexually transmitted diseases?


I'm not a medical professional, but I can provide some general information based on your concerns.
1.
The risk of contracting HIV or syphilis, as well as other sexually transmitted infections (STIs), is generally low if there was no sexual intercourse, oral sex, or intimate contact.
However, if either individual had an active infection, there is still a theoretical risk, especially if bodily fluids (like saliva or tears) came into contact with open wounds.
2.
If there was no sexual activity or intimate contact, the risk of transmission is significantly reduced.
However, it's understandable to be concerned about the possibility of saliva or tears coming into contact with your wounds or eyes.

3.
HIV is primarily transmitted through blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk, and is not typically spread through saliva or tears.
Syphilis can be transmitted through direct contact with a syphilis sore, which is usually found on the genitals, anus, or mouth.
Therefore, the likelihood of transmission through saliva or tears is extremely low.
If you have concerns about potential exposure to STIs, it is advisable to consult a healthcare professional for personalized advice and possible testing.

Jiao Lv De Ren, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/05/05

Dr. Lin Wufu reply Internal Medicine


Hello: There can be many similar situations, and the basic principles are as follows: 1.
Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) encompass a wide range of diseases.
The ones we commonly discuss, such as HIV and syphilis, generally require exposure to blood or bodily fluids from the genital area for transmission risk.
Therefore, activities like hugging, holding hands, or kissing do not pose a transmission risk.
2.
Even in untreated individuals, the viral or bacterial load in saliva or tears of patients with these two diseases is negligible, so there is little need to worry about transmission through saliva or tears coming into contact with wounds or eyes.
3.
The full term for STIs is sexually transmitted diseases; if a disease could be transmitted through casual contact, it would not specifically be classified as a sexually transmitted disease.
I hope this information is helpful to you.

Reply Date: 2019/05/05

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When it comes to concerns about HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) following casual encounters, it's essential to understand the transmission routes and the associated risks. Based on your description, let's break down your concerns and provide clarity on the potential risks involved.

1. Risk of HIV and Other STDs:
- Casual Encounters: From what you've described, your interactions with both women involved no sexual activity—only hugging and spending time together in public. The primary modes of HIV transmission include unprotected sexual intercourse (vaginal or anal), sharing needles, and from mother to child during childbirth or breastfeeding. Since you did not engage in any sexual acts, your risk of contracting HIV is extremely low.

- Other STDs: Similar to HIV, most STDs require direct sexual contact for transmission. While some STDs can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact (like herpes or HPV), your described interactions do not suggest a significant risk for these infections either.

2. Concerns About Bodily Fluids:
- Saliva and Tears: HIV is not transmitted through saliva or tears. While some other infections can be transmitted through these fluids, the likelihood of contracting HIV through casual contact with tears or saliva is negligible. For most STDs, including syphilis and gonorrhea, the transmission typically requires direct contact with infected bodily fluids during sexual activities.

- Open Wounds: You mentioned having small cuts on your hands. While open wounds can theoretically increase the risk of infection if they come into contact with infected bodily fluids, the risk of HIV transmission through this route is still very low, especially if there was no direct exchange of blood or significant exposure to infected fluids.

3. General Advice:
- No Sexual Contact: Since you did not engage in any sexual activities, the risk of contracting HIV or other STDs is minimal. Casual interactions, such as hugging or walking in a park, do not pose a significant risk.

- Monitoring Symptoms: If you experience any unusual symptoms (such as sores, rashes, or flu-like symptoms) in the weeks following your encounters, it would be wise to consult a healthcare provider for evaluation. However, the absence of symptoms does not indicate infection.

- Testing: If you remain concerned about potential exposure, consider getting tested for peace of mind. Many clinics offer anonymous testing for STDs, including HIV. Regular testing is a good practice, especially if you have multiple partners or engage in sexual activities.

In conclusion, based on your description of the encounters, your risk of contracting HIV or other STDs is very low. It is always good to be cautious and informed about sexual health, but in this case, there is no need for significant worry. If you have ongoing concerns, do not hesitate to reach out to a healthcare professional for personalized advice and testing options.

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