Ejaculation issues
Hello doctor, my method of masturbation is lying on my stomach, and I can ejaculate this way.
I want to try using my hand, but I can't seem to ejaculate.
I'm worried that I won't feel anything during sexual intercourse in the future.
1.
What should I do?
2.
If I need to check my sperm but cannot obtain a sample through masturbation, what other methods are available for sperm collection?
Hong, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/05/31
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: 1) Change this method.
2) If there is really no other option and sperm analysis is necessary, sperm can be retrieved through testicular surgery.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2019/05/31
More Info
Ejaculation issues can be a source of concern for many men, and it's important to understand the underlying factors that may contribute to these difficulties. Your situation, where you can achieve ejaculation through one method but struggle with another, is not uncommon. Here are some insights and potential solutions to your questions.
Understanding Ejaculation Difficulties
Ejaculation is a complex process that involves both physical and psychological components. The ability to ejaculate can be influenced by various factors, including anxiety, arousal levels, physical stimulation, and even the method of stimulation. In your case, it seems that the position you use for masturbation (lying face down) may provide a level of stimulation that is not replicated when using your hands. This could be due to the pressure and friction that your body experiences in that position.
Solutions for Ejaculation Issues
1. Experiment with Different Techniques: Since you find it easier to ejaculate in a specific position, try to replicate that sensation with your hands. You might consider using lubrication to enhance the experience and mimic the feeling you get when lying down. Additionally, varying the speed and pressure of your hand movements can help you find what feels best.
2. Incorporate Visual or Mental Stimulation: Sometimes, the mind plays a significant role in sexual arousal and ejaculation. Consider using visual aids or engaging in fantasies that excite you while you attempt to ejaculate with your hands. This can help bridge the gap between physical stimulation and mental arousal.
3. Relaxation Techniques: Anxiety about performance can hinder your ability to ejaculate. Practicing relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or mindfulness, can help reduce anxiety and improve your overall sexual experience.
4. Consult a Professional: If these methods do not yield results, it may be beneficial to consult a healthcare professional, such as a urologist or a sexual health specialist. They can provide tailored advice and explore any underlying medical conditions that may be affecting your ability to ejaculate.
Alternatives for Sperm Collection
If you need to collect sperm for analysis and are unable to do so through masturbation, there are alternative methods available:
1. Vibratory Stimulation: Some clinics offer vibratory stimulation devices that can help induce ejaculation. These devices are designed to provide the necessary stimulation to achieve ejaculation without the need for manual techniques.
2. Electroejaculation: In cases where traditional methods are not effective, electroejaculation may be an option. This procedure involves the use of electrical stimulation to induce ejaculation and is typically performed in a medical setting.
3. Surgical Sperm Retrieval: If there are significant challenges with ejaculation, surgical methods such as testicular sperm extraction (TESE) or percutaneous epididymal sperm aspiration (PESA) may be considered. These procedures involve retrieving sperm directly from the testicles or epididymis.
4. Assisted Reproductive Techniques: If natural ejaculation is not possible, assisted reproductive techniques such as in vitro fertilization (IVF) or intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) may be options. These methods can utilize retrieved sperm for fertilization.
Conclusion
Ejaculation issues can be frustrating, but understanding the factors at play and exploring different techniques can help improve your situation. If you continue to experience difficulties, seeking professional help is a wise step. Remember, sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and addressing these concerns can lead to a more fulfilling sexual experience.
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