Masturbation: Seeking Help and Guidance
Hello Doctor: My situation is that I often masturbate in the morning while lying in bed, and when I feel I'm about to ejaculate, I press down on the tip and immediately go to the bathroom to ejaculate while also urinating.
Sometimes, the two urges conflict, and I feel like I'm stuck between needing to ejaculate or urinate.
Could this frequent occurrence lead to weakness in my urinary function? I have been experiencing this for three years now.
I have seen a doctor, and blood and urine tests showed no issues, but I can no longer urinate with the same force as before.
Could you please provide some advice? I feel helpless and very troubled.
Xiao He, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/08/12
Dr. Du Mingyi reply Urology
It is recommended that when ejaculation occurs, do not apply pressure to the glans; instead, prepare a tissue to catch the semen.
This will allow for normal ejaculation.
Afterward, wait for about half an hour before urinating again.
Reply Date: 2019/08/12
More Info
It sounds like you're experiencing a challenging and frustrating situation with your urination issues, particularly related to the pressure and urgency you feel in the mornings. Based on your description, it seems that you have been dealing with this problem for about three years, and despite having undergone blood and urine tests that came back normal, you still feel a significant difference in your ability to urinate forcefully compared to before.
First, it's important to understand that the urinary system can be affected by various factors, including physical, psychological, and lifestyle elements. The fact that you are experiencing difficulty with urination, especially in the context of your described behaviors, suggests that there may be a few areas to explore further.
1. Pelvic Floor Dysfunction: One possibility is that you may be experiencing pelvic floor dysfunction. The pelvic floor muscles play a crucial role in urination, and if they are either too tight or too weak, it can lead to issues with urination. Engaging in activities like pressing on the urethra during masturbation could potentially contribute to changes in muscle tone or coordination. A referral to a pelvic floor physical therapist could be beneficial, as they can provide exercises and techniques to strengthen or relax these muscles.
2. Urinary Tract Health: Although your tests came back normal, it might be worth discussing with your doctor the possibility of a more detailed evaluation of your urinary tract. Conditions such as bladder outlet obstruction, urethral stricture, or even neurological conditions can sometimes lead to similar symptoms. A urologist may be able to conduct further assessments, such as a urodynamic study, to evaluate how well your bladder and urethra are functioning.
3. Psychological Factors: Anxiety and stress can also impact urination. If you find yourself feeling anxious about urinating or if the act of urination has become associated with pressure (for example, due to your concerns about ejaculation), this could potentially lead to a cycle of tension that affects your ability to urinate effectively. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) or other forms of counseling may help address any underlying anxiety and improve your overall comfort with the process.
4. Lifestyle Modifications: Consider evaluating your lifestyle habits. Hydration, diet, and physical activity can all influence urinary health. Ensuring you are well-hydrated and consuming a balanced diet can support overall urinary function. Additionally, regular exercise can help improve pelvic floor strength and overall health.
5. Follow-Up with Healthcare Providers: Since you've already consulted with a physician, it may be helpful to follow up with them or seek a second opinion from a urologist. They can provide specialized insights and may suggest additional tests or treatments that could address your symptoms more effectively.
In summary, while your initial tests have not indicated any significant issues, the persistent nature of your symptoms warrants further exploration. Engaging with a specialist, such as a urologist or a pelvic floor therapist, could provide you with the targeted support you need. Remember, it’s crucial to communicate openly with your healthcare providers about your concerns and the impact this issue has on your quality of life. Seeking help is a positive step, and with the right support, you can work towards finding a solution that alleviates your symptoms.
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