Concerns about kissing with cauliflower ear?
Hello, I recently had a sexual encounter with a woman I don't know very well.
We used a condom throughout the entire experience and I have tested negative for STIs, but I did not get an HPV DNA test.
I made sure to avoid any activities that should not be done without a condom (such as genital rubbing), but she unexpectedly and lightly kissed my glans while giving me a handjob.
This surprised me, and I am unsure if this behavior could lead to an STI, such as warts, syphilis, or genital herpes.
I am particularly worried about genital warts because of their long incubation period.
I read online that most cases of genital warts are transmitted through direct sexual contact, and not to overly worry about extreme cases.
Could kissing my glans lead to any infections? I have been feeling very anxious and unable to sleep, and the more I research online, the more worried I become.
Thank you, doctor.
Pa Pa De Yi Huo Zhe, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/10/28
Dr. Cai Zhuorong reply Urology
Cauliflower is less commonly transmitted through routes other than the genital area.
However, gonorrhea can be transmitted through oral sex at a certain incidence rate.
Reply Date: 2019/10/28
More Info
When it comes to concerns about HPV (Human Papillomavirus) and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) following oral contact, it's important to understand the transmission dynamics and the associated risks.
First, let's address the specific situation you described. You mentioned that you engaged in sexual activity with a woman, using a condom throughout the encounter, which significantly reduces the risk of transmitting most STIs, including HPV. However, the act of her kissing your glans (the head of the penis) does introduce some risk, albeit a relatively low one, depending on several factors.
1. Transmission of HPV: HPV is primarily transmitted through direct skin-to-skin contact, particularly during sexual activities. While the risk of transmission through oral contact exists, it is generally lower compared to vaginal or anal intercourse. The types of HPV that are most commonly associated with genital warts (such as HPV types 6 and 11) can potentially be transmitted through oral contact, but the likelihood is significantly reduced if there are no visible lesions or warts present on either partner.
2. Other STIs: The risk of contracting other STIs, such as herpes, syphilis, or gonorrhea, through oral contact is also present, but again, the risk is influenced by the presence of sores, cuts, or other mucosal injuries. If the woman had an active infection or was a carrier of an STI, there is a possibility of transmission through oral contact. However, if both of you have tested negative for STIs, the risk is considerably lower.
3. Symptoms and Monitoring: After potential exposure to STIs, it’s wise to monitor for any symptoms that may arise, such as unusual sores, discharge, or irritation. The incubation period for many STIs can vary, so if you notice any concerning symptoms, it’s essential to consult a healthcare provider for evaluation and testing.
4. Testing for HPV: Since you have not undergone HPV DNA testing, it may be beneficial to discuss this with your healthcare provider. HPV testing can help determine if you have a high-risk strain of the virus, which is important for monitoring and management. Regular screenings and follow-ups are crucial, especially if you have concerns about HPV.
5. Reducing Anxiety: It’s understandable to feel anxious after a potential exposure. However, it’s important to remember that not every intimate encounter leads to infection, especially when precautions like condom use are taken. If your anxiety persists, consider speaking with a mental health professional or a counselor who specializes in sexual health.
6. Preventive Measures: To reduce the risk of STIs in the future, continue using condoms during sexual activities, including oral sex. Additionally, consider getting vaccinated against HPV if you haven't already, as the vaccine can protect against the most common high-risk HPV types.
In summary, while there is a potential risk of STI transmission through the act you described, the overall risk remains low, especially given your precautions. Regular testing, open communication with partners about sexual health, and preventive measures can significantly reduce your risk of STIs. If you have ongoing concerns or symptoms, do not hesitate to seek medical advice for further evaluation and peace of mind.
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