Menstrual issues
My girlfriend had her period from October 2 to October 8, and her cycle is 35 days.
If I engaged in foreplay with her on October 12, and my hand had some fluid from masturbation (I did not ejaculate), and then I performed digital penetration (not deep, just a little, since my girlfriend is a virgin), is there a chance of pregnancy?
Answer: There is no chance of pregnancy.
Up until now, my girlfriend's body has shown no abnormalities.
However, her period is due on November 5, and on November 2, she experienced a brief sharp pain in her abdomen.
Is this normal?
Answer: This is relatively normal, and her discharge is consistent with what it has been before, with only an increase during ovulation (she also reports sharp pain during ovulation).
Is there a possibility of pregnancy, or are we just overthinking it?
Answer: You are overthinking it.
Doctor, regarding my previous inquiry, my girlfriend has been feeling bloated and nauseous (she saw a doctor yesterday who diagnosed her with viral gastroenteritis).
This week, her breasts have become firm, and today she has menstrual-like cramps, but her period has not yet arrived.
It was originally due on November 5, but it hasn't come yet.
Could the delay in her period be due to us overthinking and causing her stress? Are these symptoms normal?
Doctor's response: Obstetrics and Gynecology, Dr.
Huang Jianzhong suggests: My girlfriend has been feeling bloated and nauseous (she saw a doctor yesterday who diagnosed her with viral gastroenteritis).
This week, her breasts have become firm, and today she has menstrual-like cramps, but her period has not yet arrived.
It was originally due on November 5, but it hasn't come yet.
Could the delay in her period be due to us overthinking and causing her stress?
Answer: Yes, it is due to stress.
Are these symptoms normal?
Answer: Generally, they are normal.
Hello, Doctor.
This is a follow-up to my previous inquiry.
My girlfriend woke up in pain around 4 AM on November 7, and her period started.
The first two days were bright red.
On the second day, there was a school sports event, and after she ran, her flow decreased.
From the fourth to the sixth day, her period was brown (it has been brown towards the end previously), and today it has almost stopped.
After she took a shower today, her underwear felt a bit damp.
Are these symptoms normal?
The delay of two days this time is indeed as the doctor said, due to stress.
B, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/11/12
Dr. Huang Jianzhong reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
My girlfriend was awakened by pain around 4 AM on November 7th, and her period started.
The first two days were bright red.
On the second day, she participated in a school sports event and ran, and the next day her flow decreased.
From the fourth to the sixth day, her period was brown (it usually turns brown towards the end).
Today, it has almost stopped, but after she took a shower, her underwear felt a bit damp.
Is this normal, doctor? Answer: Yes, this is normal.
Is it true that her period was two days late due to stress, as the doctor mentioned? Answer: Yes.
Reply Date: 2019/11/12
More Info
Menstrual irregularities can often be a source of concern for many women, and understanding the factors that contribute to these changes is essential for both physical and mental well-being. In your case, it appears that your girlfriend has experienced a delay in her menstrual cycle, which can be attributed to several factors, including stress, hormonal fluctuations, and physical health.
Stress is a significant factor that can affect the menstrual cycle. When a person experiences high levels of stress, the body releases stress hormones such as cortisol, which can interfere with the normal functioning of the hypothalamus, the part of the brain that regulates the menstrual cycle. This disruption can lead to delayed periods, missed cycles, or even changes in the flow and duration of menstruation. In your girlfriend's case, the stress from your previous concerns about potential pregnancy and the anxiety surrounding it could have contributed to her menstrual irregularity.
The symptoms your girlfriend is experiencing, such as abdominal discomfort, breast tenderness, and changes in discharge, can also be associated with the menstrual cycle and hormonal changes. It is not uncommon for women to experience premenstrual syndrome (PMS), which can include symptoms like bloating, mood swings, and physical discomfort before their period starts. The fact that her period eventually arrived, albeit a couple of days late, suggests that her body was likely responding to the stress and adjusting accordingly.
Regarding the physical symptoms she experienced, such as feeling bloated and wanting to vomit, these can also be linked to gastrointestinal issues, as noted by the diagnosis of viral gastroenteritis. This condition can cause nausea and abdominal discomfort, which may be unrelated to her menstrual cycle but could exacerbate her overall feelings of discomfort and stress.
The color and consistency of menstrual flow can vary from cycle to cycle. It is normal for menstrual blood to change from bright red to darker shades, such as brown, as the period progresses. The presence of brown blood typically indicates older blood that has taken longer to exit the uterus. The changes in her flow, from bright red to brown, are generally considered normal and can occur in many women.
In summary, it seems that your girlfriend's late period and the accompanying symptoms are likely influenced by a combination of stress and normal physiological changes. It is essential to manage stress effectively, as it can have a profound impact on both mental and physical health. Encouraging relaxation techniques, such as mindfulness, yoga, or deep-breathing exercises, can be beneficial. If her symptoms persist or if she has further concerns about her menstrual health, it would be advisable for her to consult with a healthcare professional for a thorough evaluation and personalized advice.
In conclusion, while stress can indeed affect menstrual cycles, the body is resilient and often adjusts over time. Open communication between partners about concerns and feelings can also help alleviate some of the stress associated with these situations. If you both continue to feel anxious about these issues, seeking guidance from a healthcare provider can provide reassurance and clarity.
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