Sexual dysfunction
I'm not sure what the reason is, but after checking my hormone levels at the hospital, they were around 500.
The doctor said there was nothing wrong and that exercising more and getting enough sleep could help improve the situation.
However, I have completely lost my sex drive; I feel nothing even when watching videos, and my erectile response is very minimal.
Even when I do have an erection, it is only semi-rigid.
I find this situation very strange because I have never had this problem before; during my college years, I had a sex drive and normal erectile responses.
I have seen many doctors, but I still have no idea what is happening to me, and I am very worried!
In college, I experienced severe dissociation due to excessive masturbation.
Although I have read many articles online stating that masturbation has no significant impact on health, my situation was so severe that I couldn't work.
I was in a constant state of mental confusion, unable to concentrate on reading or listening to others, and no amount of rest or nutritional supplementation seemed to help.
However, after a long time, I improved significantly, especially after my military service, which forced me to adjust my routine.
Now, I am wondering if my current condition is a result of the high frequency of masturbation in the past (up to three times in a row!), which led to severe dissociation (it was really severe; I couldn't read or think and felt completely lost in a chaotic mental state).
I wonder if my body has developed a defense mechanism that has completely suppressed my sex drive to prevent me from wanting to masturbate again, thereby avoiding a return to that dissociative state.
This is just a guess on my part.
I haven't masturbated for quite a long time, but these are just my speculations.
From your professional perspective, what do you think about this situation? It might sound absurd, but it is a very real experience for me.
Doctor, could you please give me some advice? I really need your help, as I am very troubled!
Wúzhù de nánzǐ, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2019/11/30
Dr. Du Mingyi reply Urology
It can be said that it is actually the effect of the subconscious mind; maintaining a calm and balanced mindset, just like everyone else, will prevent any issues.
Reply Date: 2019/11/30
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a complex condition that can stem from a variety of physical and psychological factors. Your concerns about the lack of sexual desire, difficulty achieving an erection, and the history of excessive masturbation leading to mental distress are valid and warrant a thorough understanding.
Causes of Erectile Dysfunction
1. Physical Factors:
- Hormonal Imbalances: Although your testosterone levels are within a normal range (around 500), other hormonal issues, such as thyroid dysfunction or elevated prolactin levels, could contribute to ED.
- Vascular Health: Conditions like hypertension, diabetes, and high cholesterol can affect blood flow, which is crucial for achieving and maintaining an erection.
- Neurological Conditions: Nerve damage from conditions such as diabetes or multiple sclerosis can impact erectile function.
- Medications: Some medications can lead to ED as a side effect. It’s important to review any medications you are taking with your healthcare provider.
2. Psychological Factors:
- Anxiety and Stress: Performance anxiety, stress from work or personal life, and general anxiety can significantly impact sexual desire and function.
- Depression: This can lead to a decreased libido and affect overall energy levels and motivation.
- Past Experiences: Your history of excessive masturbation and the resulting mental distress could have created a psychological barrier to sexual arousal. It’s possible that your brain has associated sexual activity with negative experiences, leading to a lack of desire.
Concerns and Solutions
1. Understanding Your Symptoms:
- The absence of sexual desire and difficulty achieving an erection can be interrelated. It’s essential to differentiate whether the lack of desire is causing the erectile issues or if the erectile dysfunction is leading to a decrease in sexual interest.
- Your experience of mental fog and distress during your university years could have created a lasting impact on your sexual health. It’s not uncommon for psychological trauma or stress to manifest in sexual dysfunction.
2. Seeking Professional Help:
- It’s crucial to consult a healthcare professional who specializes in sexual health. They can provide a comprehensive evaluation, including a detailed medical history, physical examination, and possibly additional tests to rule out underlying conditions.
- Consider speaking with a mental health professional. Therapy can help address any psychological barriers and provide coping strategies for anxiety or past trauma related to sexual experiences.
3. Lifestyle Modifications:
- Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep are foundational for overall health and can improve sexual function. Engaging in activities that reduce stress, such as yoga or meditation, may also be beneficial.
- Avoiding excessive alcohol and quitting smoking can improve vascular health and, consequently, erectile function.
4. Open Communication:
- If you are in a relationship, discussing your concerns with your partner can alleviate some of the pressure you may feel. Open communication can foster understanding and support.
5. Consider Medical Treatments:
- If lifestyle changes and therapy do not yield improvements, medications such as phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis) may be prescribed. These medications can enhance blood flow to the penis and help achieve an erection.
Conclusion
Your situation is not uncommon, and many men experience similar challenges at various points in their lives. The key is to approach the issue holistically, considering both physical and psychological aspects. It’s essential to seek professional guidance to explore the underlying causes of your symptoms and develop a tailored treatment plan. Remember, addressing erectile dysfunction is a journey, and with the right support and interventions, improvement is possible.
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