Can You Get Pregnant Without Intercourse? the Risks

Can I get pregnant?

A few days ago, while I was caressing my girlfriend, I noticed some discharge and her lower area felt wet.
After touching the outside, my fingers went inside (I’m not sure if I touched the hymen), but we did not engage in sexual intercourse, and she is still a virgin.
I have heard of cases where virgins can become pregnant from pre-ejaculate fluid.
Is it possible for her to be pregnant? I’ve heard the chances are quite low, almost impossible, right? This time her period is a week late (it has been regular at 28 days for the past two months), but she often has irregular cycles, sometimes only having a period every two months.
Should she go to the hospital to check for pregnancy? How many days after a missed period is it advisable to take a test? Since we do not want to have a child, if it has been more than three days, would she need to go to the hospital for RU486? Thank you, doctor.
I apologize for asking so many questions; I am quite anxious.

Han Han, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/01/26

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Hello, you are likely not pregnant.
If you are still concerned, taking a pregnancy test will provide clarity.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2020/01/26

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Yes, it is indeed possible to become pregnant without intercourse, although the likelihood is generally low. This can occur through a process known as "pre-ejaculate" or "pre-cum," which is a fluid released by the penis during arousal. This fluid can contain sperm, and if it comes into contact with the vaginal area, there is a potential risk of pregnancy.

In your situation, you mentioned that during foreplay, there was some fluid present, and your fingers may have come into contact with the vaginal area. If there were viable sperm in that fluid, there is a slight chance of pregnancy, especially if it was close to the time of ovulation. However, the probability of conception from such an encounter is significantly lower compared to full intercourse, where ejaculation occurs inside the vagina.

Regarding your girlfriend's delayed menstruation, it is important to consider a few factors. A missed period can be attributed to various reasons, including stress, hormonal changes, or other health-related issues, especially if her cycle has been irregular in the past. If her period is consistently late, it would be advisable for her to take a home pregnancy test. These tests are generally accurate and can detect pregnancy as early as the first day of a missed period. However, for the most reliable results, it is often recommended to wait about a week after the missed period to take the test.

If the home pregnancy test is positive, or if she continues to experience symptoms of pregnancy (such as nausea, breast tenderness, or fatigue), it would be prudent to schedule an appointment with a healthcare provider for further evaluation and guidance.

If the concern is that she may be pregnant and you both are not ready for a child, it is essential to understand the options available. If the pregnancy is confirmed and you are considering termination, medications such as RU486 (mifepristone) can be used to terminate an early pregnancy. However, this medication is typically prescribed by a healthcare provider and is usually effective within the first 10 weeks of pregnancy. It is crucial to consult with a healthcare professional to discuss the safest and most appropriate options based on her specific situation.

In summary, while the chances of pregnancy without intercourse are low, they are not zero. If there is a concern about a potential pregnancy, taking a home pregnancy test and consulting with a healthcare provider are the best steps to take. Additionally, understanding the options available for pregnancy termination, if necessary, is important for making informed decisions.

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