My boyfriend has a lingerie fetish, concerning hygiene issues?
I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that.
Tsai Pei-yun, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/03/07
Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Hello, washing underwear thoroughly and drying it in the sun generally achieves a sterilization effect.
As for the white spots, I cannot determine what the issue might be; it may be necessary to consult a psychiatrist regarding any concerns related to underwear fixation.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2020/03/07
More Info
When it comes to understanding the hygiene risks associated with a partner's panty fetish, it's important to consider both the psychological and physical aspects involved. Here, I will address your questions one by one while providing additional context regarding hygiene and health risks.
1. Can a panty fetish be treated?
A panty fetish, like many other sexual preferences, falls under the category of paraphilias. While such fetishes are generally considered a normal variation of human sexuality, they can become problematic if they interfere with relationships or cause distress. Treatment options may include therapy, particularly cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), which can help individuals understand their desires and how to manage them in a healthy way. If the fetish is causing issues in your relationship, discussing it openly with a mental health professional could be beneficial.
2. Could ejaculation on underwear transmit infections?
Yes, there is a potential risk of transmitting infections if bodily fluids are involved. If your boyfriend has any sexually transmitted infections (STIs), there is a possibility that they could be transmitted through contact with his semen on your underwear. Common STIs include chlamydia, gonorrhea, and herpes, among others. It's essential to have open and honest discussions about sexual health, including STI testing, to ensure both partners are safe.
3. Can washing underwear eliminate viruses or bacteria?
Washing underwear can significantly reduce the presence of bacteria and viruses, but it may not eliminate all pathogens entirely, especially if they are particularly resilient. Using hot water and a good detergent can help, and adding bleach (if the fabric allows) can further disinfect. However, if there are concerns about specific infections, it may be wise to consider replacing items that have been exposed to bodily fluids.
4. Is this a serious personal hygiene issue?
The concerns raised by your friends about personal hygiene are valid. Engaging in activities that involve bodily fluids can pose health risks, particularly if proper hygiene practices are not followed. It's essential to maintain good hygiene to prevent infections. If you feel uncomfortable with your boyfriend's behavior, it’s crucial to communicate your feelings and establish boundaries that respect both your comfort and health.
5. What are the white spots on my underwear?
The white spots you are noticing on your underwear could be a few things. They might be remnants of bodily fluids, such as dried semen, or they could be detergent residue. If the spots are persistent and you are concerned, it may be worth consulting a healthcare professional to rule out any infections or other health issues.
In summary, while fetishes can be a normal part of human sexuality, they should be approached with care, especially regarding hygiene and health. Open communication with your partner about boundaries, hygiene practices, and sexual health is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship. If you have further concerns about STIs or personal hygiene, consider consulting a healthcare professional for personalized advice and testing.
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