Sexual dysfunction
Hello doctor, I have a question I would like to ask.
In the past, I would satisfy my sexual urges through masturbation, but recently, during intimate moments with my girlfriend, I experience a lack of sensation and difficulty achieving ejaculation, and sometimes I even lose my erection midway.
In the end, I have to resort to masturbation to finish.
Could this be related to long-term masturbation and excessive stimulation, or is it more related to psychological factors? I would appreciate your insights.
Thank you.
Nìngmíng, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/05/10
Dr. Fu Shizhang reply Urology
In general, it may indeed be related to long-term masturbation and excessive stimulation, with psychological factors also playing a role.
It is recommended to visit a urology clinic to rule out any organic causes.
Reply Date: 2020/05/10
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common issue that many men face at some point in their lives. It can be caused by a variety of factors, including physical, psychological, and lifestyle-related issues. Understanding these causes is crucial for finding effective solutions.
Causes of Erectile Dysfunction
1. Physical Causes:
- Vascular Health: Conditions such as hypertension, high cholesterol, and diabetes can impair blood flow to the penis, making it difficult to achieve or maintain an erection.
- Hormonal Imbalances: Low testosterone levels can affect libido and erectile function. Hormonal changes can occur due to aging or medical conditions.
- Neurological Disorders: Conditions like multiple sclerosis, Parkinson's disease, or spinal cord injuries can disrupt the nerve signals necessary for an erection.
- Medications: Certain medications, including those for high blood pressure, depression, and anxiety, can have side effects that contribute to ED.
2. Psychological Causes:
- Stress and Anxiety: Performance anxiety or stress related to work, relationships, or other life pressures can lead to difficulties in achieving an erection.
- Depression: Mental health issues can significantly impact sexual desire and performance.
- Relationship Issues: Problems with a partner, including lack of communication or intimacy, can also contribute to erectile dysfunction.
3. Lifestyle Factors:
- Substance Use: Alcohol and recreational drugs can impair sexual function. Chronic use can lead to long-term issues.
- Obesity: Excess weight can lead to hormonal changes and vascular problems that contribute to ED.
- Sedentary Lifestyle: Lack of physical activity can affect overall health and blood flow.
Solutions for Erectile Dysfunction
1. Medical Evaluation:
- It is essential to consult a healthcare provider to rule out any underlying medical conditions. Blood tests can help assess hormone levels and overall health.
2. Lifestyle Changes:
- Exercise: Regular physical activity can improve blood flow, reduce stress, and enhance overall health. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week.
- Diet: A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can improve vascular health. Avoid excessive alcohol and quit smoking if applicable.
- Weight Management: Maintaining a healthy weight can reduce the risk of conditions that contribute to ED.
3. Psychological Support:
- If psychological factors are contributing to ED, consider speaking with a therapist or counselor. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can be effective in addressing performance anxiety and relationship issues.
4. Medication:
- There are several medications available that can help improve erectile function by enhancing blood flow to the penis. These include phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitors (e.g., Viagra, Cialis). Consult a healthcare provider to determine if these are appropriate for you.
5. Alternative Treatments:
- Some men find success with vacuum erection devices, penile injections, or even surgical options in severe cases. Discuss these options with a healthcare provider.
Conclusion
In your case, the combination of long-term masturbation habits and the intensity of stimulation may have contributed to your current difficulties with erectile function. It is possible that psychological factors, such as anxiety about performance with your girlfriend, are also playing a role. Addressing both the physical and psychological aspects of ED is crucial for recovery.
Consider seeking professional help to explore these issues further. A healthcare provider can guide you through the process of understanding your condition and finding the most effective solutions tailored to your needs. Remember, you are not alone in this, and many men experience similar challenges.
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