Long-term absence of morning erections?
Hello Doctor: I am currently 37 years old.
I started dating at 17 and have been having sexual intercourse almost every day without using condoms.
I usually ejaculate after just a few thrusts, and even with a condom, I ejaculate within a few minutes.
I have always told myself that my premature ejaculation is psychological.
After turning 18, I noticed a significant decrease in morning erections; I rarely experience them upon waking.
Recently, I started dating a new girlfriend and found that I cannot achieve a proper erection during foreplay, and I ejaculate after just a few rubs at the vaginal opening while in a flaccid state.
I can achieve an erection through masturbation, but I need continuous stimulation; once the stimulation stops, I lose my erection.
During masturbation, I can control the pace and typically ejaculate after about 20 minutes.
I have been trying to get used to the feeling of wearing a condom during intercourse, but when I wear a condom while masturbating, I ejaculate in less than a minute.
After researching online, I learned that a long-term lack of morning erections could indicate erectile dysfunction.
My lifestyle is normal; I don’t smoke or drink, I rarely stay up late, and I have no work-related stress, yet I still do not have morning erections.
I am very concerned that I may have organic erectile dysfunction combined with premature ejaculation.
I have been consistently running; what can I do to improve this situation?
Joee, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/07/22
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: You should seek medical attention first.
You can pay attention to your daily life, but it is important to get a diagnosis before starting medication for a period of time.
It would be best to consult a physician with expertise in this area at a major hospital, as they can provide more targeted treatment.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2020/07/22
More Info
Understanding the impact of morning erections, or the lack thereof, on erectile dysfunction (ED) can be quite complex, especially when considering the interplay of psychological and physiological factors. Morning erections, also known as nocturnal penile tumescence, are a normal physiological response that occurs during REM sleep. They are a sign of healthy blood flow and nerve function in the penis. The absence of morning erections can sometimes indicate underlying issues, including erectile dysfunction, but it is not the sole determinant.
In your case, it seems that you have experienced a significant change in your sexual function over time, particularly with the onset of new relationships. The fact that you can achieve an erection during masturbation but struggle during intercourse, especially with the use of condoms, suggests that psychological factors may be at play. Performance anxiety, stress about sexual performance, and even the pressure of a new relationship can contribute to difficulties in maintaining an erection.
Moreover, the absence of morning erections could be indicative of a few potential issues. It could suggest that there is a physiological component to your erectile difficulties, particularly if this has changed from your earlier experiences. Factors such as hormonal imbalances, vascular health, and nerve function can all play a role in erectile function. However, since you mentioned that you maintain a healthy lifestyle—regular exercise, no smoking or drinking, and low stress—it may be more related to psychological factors rather than purely physiological ones.
To improve your situation, consider the following strategies:
1. Consult a Healthcare Professional: It is essential to speak with a healthcare provider who can evaluate your symptoms comprehensively. They may conduct tests to rule out any underlying medical conditions, such as hormonal imbalances or vascular issues.
2. Psychological Counseling: If anxiety or stress is a contributing factor, speaking with a therapist or counselor who specializes in sexual health can be beneficial. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can help address performance anxiety and improve your confidence.
3. Practice Relaxation Techniques: Incorporating relaxation techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, or deep-breathing exercises can help reduce anxiety and improve your overall sexual experience.
4. Gradual Exposure: If using condoms is a challenge, consider practicing with them during masturbation to become more accustomed to the sensation. This can help reduce anxiety during intercourse.
5. Communication with Your Partner: Open and honest communication with your partner about your concerns can help alleviate pressure and create a more supportive environment for intimacy.
6. Physical Health: Continue your exercise routine, as physical fitness can improve blood flow and overall sexual health. Additionally, consider discussing your diet with a nutritionist to ensure you are supporting your sexual health through proper nutrition.
7. Limit Stimulants: Reducing caffeine and other stimulants can help lower anxiety levels, which may improve your sexual performance.
In conclusion, while the absence of morning erections can be concerning, it is essential to consider the broader context of your sexual health. By addressing both the psychological and physiological aspects of your situation, you can work towards improving your erectile function and overall sexual satisfaction. Remember, seeking professional help is a crucial step in understanding and addressing these concerns effectively.
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