Post-ejaculation issues?
Hello Doctor, recently besides having sexual activity with my girlfriend, I have also been masturbating a bit excessively, about four times in the last two days.
I understand that I should take a break, but I have two questions.
After I have sex with my girlfriend twice or masturbate too frequently, I experience a slight aching sensation in my lower back, which lasts a bit longer but eases with rest.
Is this a sign of inflammation, or is it just my body signaling that I need to rest?
My second question is that sometimes, even when my girlfriend and I are not planning to have sex, I notice that my penis secretes pre-ejaculatory fluid, especially when she is playfully lying on top of me.
I’m not sure if this is because we’ve only been living together for a short time and I’m overly excited.
Should I always ejaculate when I have pre-ejaculatory fluid, or is it okay to leave it? I worry about it accumulating inside and whether that could be harmful, or is it sufficient to just flush it out occasionally without needing to ejaculate every time? Thank you.
Mo, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/08/23
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: 1) If there is safe sexual behavior, there will be no inflammation; if there is no safe sexual behavior, inflammation may occur.
2) The secretion of prostatic fluid is a normal phenomenon and does not require special treatment.
Wishing you good health.
You can refer to https://www.cdc.gov.tw/Category/ListContent/BcwrIdNHhlziwBeJq9UJ7Q?uaid=1TI7GoOkq9v7X-lr2QtYog.
Reply Date: 2020/08/23
More Info
It's great that you're reaching out with your concerns regarding post-ejaculation pain and prostate fluid issues. Let's break down your questions and provide some insights based on medical knowledge.
Post-Ejaculation Pain
Experiencing discomfort or a dull ache in the lower back or pelvic region after sexual activity or frequent masturbation can be quite common. This discomfort may stem from several factors, including muscle strain, pelvic floor tension, or even minor inflammation in the prostate or surrounding tissues.
1. Muscle Strain: Engaging in sexual activity or masturbation multiple times in a short period can lead to muscle fatigue or strain, particularly in the pelvic floor muscles and lower back. These muscles can become tense or overworked, resulting in discomfort. If the pain is mild and subsides with rest, it may simply be your body's way of signaling that it needs a break.
2. Prostate Health: The prostate gland can become inflamed or irritated due to frequent ejaculation, especially if there are underlying conditions like prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate). However, if the pain is not severe and resolves with rest, it may not indicate a serious issue.
3. Rest and Recovery: It's essential to listen to your body. If you notice persistent pain or discomfort, consider reducing the frequency of sexual activity or masturbation and allow your body time to recover. If the pain continues or worsens, it would be wise to consult a healthcare professional for a thorough evaluation.
Prostate Fluid Concerns
Regarding the secretion of prostate fluid during arousal or light stimulation, this is a normal physiological response. The prostate gland produces a fluid that is a component of semen, and it can be released even without ejaculation, especially during sexual arousal.
1. Normal Response: It's entirely normal for the prostate to produce fluid when stimulated, even if you are not engaging in penetrative sex. This fluid can be released as pre-ejaculate, which serves to lubricate the urethra and neutralize acidity, creating a more favorable environment for sperm.
2. Ejaculation and Fluid Accumulation: There is no medical necessity to "release" prostate fluid every time it is produced. The body naturally regulates these fluids, and occasional accumulation is typically not harmful. However, if you find that the sensation of needing to ejaculate becomes uncomfortable or bothersome, you might consider ejaculating to relieve that sensation.
3. Health Considerations: Frequent ejaculation (whether through sexual activity or masturbation) is generally considered healthy for prostate health. It may help reduce the risk of certain prostate issues, including prostatitis and possibly prostate cancer, according to some studies. However, balance is key; excessive sexual activity without adequate rest can lead to discomfort.
Conclusion
In summary, the discomfort you're experiencing after sexual activity or masturbation could be due to muscle strain or mild inflammation, and it's essential to allow your body time to recover. The secretion of prostate fluid during arousal is a normal physiological response, and there is no need to feel compelled to ejaculate every time this occurs. If your symptoms persist or worsen, or if you have any additional concerns, I recommend consulting a healthcare professional for a comprehensive evaluation and personalized advice.
Taking care of your sexual health is crucial, and understanding your body's signals will help you maintain a healthy balance in your sexual activities.
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