Concerns About Pregnancy: Symptoms and Risks

Pregnancy issues

On July 27, my girlfriend got her period.
Her cycle ranges from a minimum of 27 days to a maximum of 33 days.
I had unprotected intercourse on August 11, 12, and 13, but I used a condom each time and checked for any breakage, and there was none.
I disposed of the condom properly.
I want to know if my girlfriend could be pregnant.
I'm really worried because her usual cycle is around 31 days, and today is already 32 days.
I'm concerned that if she hasn't gotten her period, it might mean she's pregnant.
Is it easy for me to cause pregnancy? I'm really anxious about this, and we currently do not plan to conceive.
Additionally, I have noticed some symptoms: I used to have lower back pain, a slight headache, and my breasts feel swollen but not uncomfortable.
Recently, I've also experienced diarrhea.
Are these signs that her period is coming, or could they be signs of pregnancy?

nan, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/09/27

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Hello, the chances of pregnancy should be low; just monitor the situation.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2020/09/27

More Info

Concerns about pregnancy can be a source of significant anxiety, especially when there are uncertainties about potential symptoms and risks. In your case, it seems you are worried about the possibility of your girlfriend being pregnant after engaging in sexual activity while using condoms. Let’s break down your concerns and provide some clarity on the situation.

First, it’s important to note that when condoms are used correctly and do not break, the likelihood of pregnancy is significantly reduced. Condoms are about 98% effective in preventing pregnancy when used perfectly. However, typical use, which accounts for human error, brings this effectiveness down to around 85%. Given that you mentioned checking the condom for any breaks and finding none, this is a positive sign. However, if there was any slippage or if the condom was not used throughout the entire intercourse, there could be a risk of pregnancy.

Regarding your girlfriend's menstrual cycle, you mentioned that her cycle typically ranges from 27 to 33 days, and today marks 32 days since her last period. A missed period can indeed be an early sign of pregnancy, but it can also be influenced by various factors such as stress, hormonal changes, or health issues. The symptoms you described—such as back pain, a feeling of pressure in the head, breast tenderness, and diarrhea—can be associated with premenstrual syndrome (PMS) or early pregnancy symptoms. However, these symptoms are not definitive indicators of pregnancy.

If your girlfriend's period does not arrive soon, the best course of action would be to take a home pregnancy test. These tests are designed to detect the hormone hCG (human chorionic gonadotropin), which is produced during pregnancy. Home pregnancy tests are most accurate when taken after a missed period, so if her period does not come, waiting a few days and then testing would provide the most reliable result.

In terms of your concerns about being easily able to conceive, it’s important to understand that while certain factors can influence fertility, using condoms consistently and correctly is an effective method of birth control. If you and your girlfriend are not planning to conceive, you might consider discussing additional contraceptive methods with a healthcare provider for more reliable options.

Lastly, if the anxiety surrounding this situation is overwhelming, it may be beneficial to talk to someone about it. Anxiety about potential pregnancy can lead to stress, which can further affect both your and your girlfriend's well-being. Open communication with each other about your feelings and concerns can also help alleviate some of the stress.

In summary, while the possibility of pregnancy exists, the use of condoms significantly reduces this risk. Monitoring her menstrual cycle and taking a pregnancy test if her period is late will provide clarity. Regardless of the outcome, addressing your concerns and anxieties through open dialogue and possibly seeking professional advice can help you both navigate this situation more comfortably.

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