Masturbation habits
Hello, doctor.
I am currently 25 years old, 165 cm tall, and weigh around 60 kg.
I have been single, so I usually watch adult films and masturbate.
Now, unlike when I was younger, I don't get an erection quickly from visual stimuli; I need to use my hand to achieve an erection.
When I have good sleep quality, I do experience morning erections, but I feel that once I wake up, if I don't stimulate it or perform pelvic floor muscle contractions, it becomes flaccid.
I have a few questions:
1.
Does frequently watching adult films and masturbating change my sexual arousal habits? Would quitting adult films and training with just my hand or a masturbation sleeve help improve this?
2.
I have phimosis but not paraphimosis, so I haven't undergone circumcision.
I wonder if this is why my glans and coronal ridge are very sensitive; when using a realistic masturbation sleeve, it can be too stimulating, causing me to lose my erection.
Would continued training with the sleeve be beneficial?
3.
Since I have morning erections and the hardness is okay, does that mean there are no physical issues with my penis? If I experience erectile dysfunction, could it be related to psychological factors or performance anxiety?
Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/10/29
Dr. Xu Wencang reply Urology
The best way to adjust yourself is through simulated training with a masturbation sleeve, which can be inquired about at the outpatient clinic.
Reply Date: 2020/10/29
More Info
Understanding masturbation habits and their impact on sexual health is a multifaceted topic that encompasses psychological, physiological, and behavioral aspects. As a 25-year-old male, your experiences and concerns are quite common, and it's important to address them with a balanced perspective.
1. Impact of Pornography on Sexual Stimulus: Regular consumption of pornography can indeed alter sexual arousal patterns. Studies suggest that frequent exposure to explicit material may lead to desensitization, meaning that individuals may require more intense or varied stimuli to achieve the same level of arousal. This can create a dependency on visual stimuli, making it challenging to achieve arousal through more traditional means, such as physical intimacy or even manual stimulation. If you find that your arousal is significantly tied to pornography, taking a break from it could help reset your sexual response. Engaging in more varied forms of stimulation, such as using your hands or a sex toy like a masturbation sleeve, can help diversify your experiences and potentially improve your sexual responsiveness.
2. Sensitivity and Masturbation Techniques: Regarding your concern about sensitivity due to a longer foreskin, it’s important to note that sensitivity can vary widely among individuals. If you find that using a masturbation sleeve is too stimulating, it may be beneficial to experiment with different techniques or types of toys that provide less intense stimulation. Gradually acclimating your sensitivity through controlled and varied stimulation can help you find a balance that works for you. Additionally, practicing techniques like edging—bringing yourself close to orgasm and then stopping—can help you gain better control over your arousal and ejaculation.
3. Morning Erections and Sexual Function: The presence of morning erections (nocturnal penile tumescence) is a positive indicator of your physiological sexual health. It suggests that your body is functioning normally in terms of blood flow and nerve response. If you experience difficulties achieving or maintaining an erection during masturbation or sexual activity, it may be more related to psychological factors such as anxiety, stress, or performance pressure rather than a physical issue. Many men experience situational erectile dysfunction, which can be alleviated through relaxation techniques, reducing anxiety, and focusing on the sensations rather than the outcome.
In summary, your experiences with masturbation and sexual arousal are influenced by a combination of physical and psychological factors. If you feel that your habits are negatively impacting your sexual health or self-esteem, consider making gradual changes to your routine, such as reducing pornography consumption, experimenting with different forms of stimulation, and addressing any underlying anxiety or stress. If concerns persist, consulting a healthcare professional or a sex therapist can provide personalized guidance and support. Remember, sexual health is an integral part of overall well-being, and taking proactive steps can lead to a more satisfying sexual experience.
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