Menstrual issues, can you get pregnant?
I engaged in sexual intercourse with my partner on November 8.
My partner had her menstrual period from November 1 to November 8.
We used a condom properly; it was put on before any contact with her intimate area.
During intercourse, she indicated that she was experiencing pain, so we stopped and did not proceed further.
When we removed the condom, I noticed a layer of mucus on the glans, and I checked the condom for any damage, which showed no tears.
Afterward, I wiped away that mucus with tissue and ensured my hands were clean before touching her intimate area.
I did not use my genitalia to touch her intimate area; instead, she used her hand to help me finish.
Afterward, I asked her about her menstrual cycle, and she informed me of the following dates: January 29 to February 4, March 9 to 15 (she was unsure), May 19 to 25, June 21 to 27, July (she did not remember), August 25 to 31, September 27 to October 31, and her last period from November 1 to November 8.
As of today, her period has not yet arrived.
Could you help me calculate this? Additionally, on November 20, she experienced abdominal cramps and mentioned that she had some clear discharge that was slightly white, which she said resembled her pre-menstrual discharge.
By November 30, I asked her again about any discharge, and she said there was some, but it was less than before.
As of today, December 1, her period still has not come.
Did we miscalculate, or could she possibly be pregnant? Currently, she reports no unusual symptoms, only some discharge.
Could you please answer the following questions? 1.
When is her period likely to arrive? 2.
Is there a possibility of her being pregnant from that sexual encounter? 3.
What could that layer of mucus be, and could it lead to pregnancy? 4.
I read online that the three days after menstruation is a safe period; is it possible to avoid pregnancy during this time? Is a pregnancy test accurate now? I sincerely request your guidance.
An Huo, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/12/01
Dr. Chen Zhiyu reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
In response to your concerns, I understand your worries.
If you are concerned about pregnancy, please consider taking a pregnancy test for confirmation.
Although you have provided a lot of information, the situation regarding your menstrual cycle is quite complex, so it may be more reliable to consult a healthcare professional directly.
Thank you for your inquiry, and I wish you health and happiness.
Reply Date: 2020/12/01
More Info
When it comes to understanding the possibility of pregnancy right after a menstrual period, several factors must be considered. Let's break down your questions and concerns systematically.
1. When will her period come?
The menstrual cycle can vary significantly among women, but typically, a cycle lasts about 28 days, with ovulation occurring around the midpoint (day 14). If your partner's last period started on November 1 and lasted until November 8, she would likely ovulate around November 14. If she has a regular cycle, her next period would be expected around November 29. However, if her cycle is longer or shorter than average, this could affect the timing of her next period. Since she has not yet gotten her period as of December 1, it is possible that she could be experiencing a late period, which can happen for various reasons, including stress, hormonal changes, or pregnancy.
2. Could she be pregnant from that encounter?
While you mentioned using a condom and checking for any damage, it is important to note that pregnancy can occur even with careful precautions. Sperm can sometimes be present in pre-ejaculate fluid, which may have been released before penetration. If there was any contact between your genital areas, even without penetration, there is a slight risk of pregnancy. Given that her period is late, it would be advisable for her to take a home pregnancy test. These tests are most accurate when taken after a missed period.
3. What was that layer of fluid?
The layer of fluid you observed on your penis could be pre-ejaculate fluid, which is produced by the Cowper's glands. This fluid can contain sperm, although typically in lower quantities than ejaculate. If this fluid came into contact with her vaginal area, there is a potential risk for pregnancy, albeit small.
4. Is the "safe period" reliable?
The concept of a "safe period" is based on the assumption that ovulation occurs at a predictable time in the cycle. However, cycles can vary, and ovulation can be influenced by many factors, making this method unreliable for contraception. While some women may have a predictable cycle, others may not, and factors such as stress, illness, or hormonal changes can cause ovulation to occur earlier or later than expected.
Given the circumstances, here are some recommendations:
- Take a Pregnancy Test: Since her period is late, she should take a home pregnancy test. These tests are most reliable when taken after a missed period, as they measure the hormone hCG, which is produced during pregnancy.
- Monitor Symptoms: If she experiences any unusual symptoms, such as severe abdominal pain, heavy bleeding, or other concerning signs, she should seek medical attention promptly.
- Consider a Doctor's Visit: If the pregnancy test is positive, or if her period remains absent and she has concerns, it would be wise for her to consult with a healthcare provider for further evaluation and guidance.
In conclusion, while the timing of your sexual encounter may suggest a lower risk of pregnancy, it is not entirely without risk. The best course of action is to confirm her status with a pregnancy test and consult a healthcare professional if there are any concerns.
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