Post-Intimacy Symptoms: Is It Pregnancy or Anxiety? - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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Hello Doctor: Previously, there was an issue with code 163078.
Following that incident, my girlfriend got her period on the 7th day (she has a constitution that tends to be cold and her menstrual cycle is usually irregular, so there can be delays).
About a week after her period ended, she started taking antidepressants, which led to a series of symptoms including nausea, chest pain, and bloating.
After switching medications, her condition improved somewhat but did not fully resolve.
Later, she went to the emergency room where chest X-rays and an electrocardiogram showed no issues.
However, she experiences chest pain that makes it difficult to concentrate on anything, with intermittent sharp pain both in the center and around the chest, although pressing on the breast does not cause pain.
The bloating is also a significant concern for her.
We are unsure if this is related to that incident, if it could be a sign of pregnancy, if it is due to autonomic nervous system dysregulation, or if it is simply unnecessary worry, as it has been less than three weeks since we were intimate.

Nìmíng, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/12/14

Dr. Huang Zifei reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


Dear Anonymous,
If you are unsure whether you are pregnant, it is still advisable to take a pregnancy test.
Testing three weeks after intimacy is more accurate.
If the test is negative, it is important to investigate any underlying internal medicine-related issues.
Wishing your girlfriend a speedy recovery from her symptoms.

Dr.
Huang Zifei, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Nantou Hospital

Reply Date: 2020/12/14

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It sounds like you're going through a very challenging time, and it's completely understandable to feel anxious and uncertain about your symptoms and their potential implications. Let's break down your concerns regarding the possibility of pregnancy, anxiety, and the physical symptoms you're experiencing.

Firstly, it's important to note that the timing of your menstrual cycle is a significant factor in determining whether you might be pregnant. Since you mentioned that your period arrived about a week after the intimate encounter, this is a strong indicator that you are not pregnant. Menstrual irregularities can occur for various reasons, including stress, hormonal fluctuations, and changes in lifestyle. Given that you have a history of irregular cycles, it's possible that your body is reacting to stress or anxiety rather than indicating pregnancy.

Your symptoms of nausea, chest pain, and bloating could be linked to several factors. The anxiety and stress surrounding the intimate encounter and the fear of potential pregnancy can manifest physically. This is known as psychosomatic response, where psychological distress leads to physical symptoms. The use of antidepressants can also contribute to gastrointestinal symptoms like nausea and bloating, as these medications can affect your digestive system. It's good to hear that you changed medications and noticed some improvement, but if symptoms persist, it would be wise to consult your healthcare provider for further evaluation.

The chest pain you're experiencing, especially since it has been evaluated with chest X-rays and an ECG, may not be related to any serious cardiac issues. However, if the pain is persistent and affecting your daily life, it is crucial to discuss this with your doctor. They may consider further investigations or refer you to a specialist if necessary. It's also worth noting that anxiety can lead to muscle tension and hyperventilation, which can cause sensations of chest pain or discomfort.

In terms of managing your anxiety, it may be beneficial to engage in relaxation techniques such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or yoga. These practices can help calm your mind and reduce physical symptoms associated with anxiety. Additionally, talking to a mental health professional can provide you with coping strategies and support as you navigate these feelings.

If you find that your symptoms continue or worsen, or if you experience new symptoms, please do not hesitate to seek medical advice. It's essential to prioritize your mental and physical health during this time. Remember, it's okay to seek help, and you don't have to go through this alone. Your well-being is important, and there are resources available to support you through this period of uncertainty.

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