Urgent Advice for Gay Men: What to Do After a Severe Oral Injury - Urology

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I am a gay man, and during oral sex, half of my glans was bitten off?


I am a gay man, and a few days ago at a gay sauna, a male partner suddenly had a seizure and bit off half of my glans.
I am currently receiving treatment at the hospital and have received a tetanus shot, but I am very afraid of being infected with HIV.
What should I do?

Nan zi bu zhi dao gai zen me ban, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/01/23

Dr. Xu Wencang reply Urology


Please have the doctor examine you.

Reply Date: 2021/01/23

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I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It's understandable to feel anxious after such a traumatic experience, especially regarding potential infections and the risk of HIV. Here’s a comprehensive guide on what to do after a severe oral injury, particularly in the context of your concerns.


Immediate Steps to Take
1. Follow Medical Advice: Since you’ve already sought treatment at a hospital, it’s crucial to follow the medical advice given by healthcare professionals. They will assess the injury, provide necessary wound care, and monitor for any signs of infection.

2. Wound Care: Keep the wound clean and dry. Follow any specific instructions provided by your healthcare provider regarding cleaning the area and applying any prescribed ointments or dressings.

3. Pain Management: If you are experiencing pain, over-the-counter pain relievers like ibuprofen or acetaminophen can help, but consult your doctor before taking any medication.


Concerns About HIV and Other Infections
1. HIV Risk Assessment: The risk of HIV transmission through oral sex is generally lower than through anal or vaginal intercourse, but it is not zero, especially if there are open wounds or bleeding. Since you mentioned that the injury was severe, it’s important to discuss your specific risk with your healthcare provider.

2. Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP): If you are concerned about HIV exposure, ask your doctor about PEP. This is a medication that can significantly reduce the risk of HIV infection if taken within 72 hours after potential exposure. The sooner you start PEP, the better.

3. Testing for STIs: It’s advisable to get tested for sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV, syphilis, and hepatitis, especially if you have had unprotected sex. Your healthcare provider can guide you on when to get tested, as some infections may not be detectable immediately.


Emotional and Psychological Support
1. Mental Health: Experiencing a traumatic injury can lead to anxiety, depression, or PTSD. It’s important to talk about your feelings with a trusted friend or a mental health professional. Many hospitals and clinics offer counseling services for individuals who have experienced trauma.

2. Support Groups: Consider reaching out to LGBTQ+ support groups or organizations that can provide community support and resources. Sharing your experience with others who understand can be incredibly beneficial.


Follow-Up Care
1. Regular Check-Ups: Ensure you attend all follow-up appointments with your healthcare provider to monitor the healing process and address any complications that may arise.

2. Watch for Signs of Infection: Be vigilant for signs of infection, such as increased redness, swelling, warmth, pus, or fever. If you notice any of these symptoms, contact your healthcare provider immediately.


Conclusion
Your health and well-being are paramount. It’s essential to take proactive steps in managing your injury and addressing any concerns about infections. Don’t hesitate to reach out to healthcare professionals for guidance and support. Remember, you are not alone in this, and there are resources available to help you through this challenging time.

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