My partner says that after having sex with me, the glans and the frenulum area becomes itchy?
I have a monogamous partner, but for the past six months, my partner has been seeking sexual encounters outside of our relationship, both with and without a condom.
He has mentioned that he only experiences itching after we have sex, and we have been having unprotected sex for many years.
Both of us drink alcohol, but I have started to reduce my alcohol intake and have been taking cranberry probiotics and other health supplements.
I haven't had any issues with infections in my intimate area for over a year.
My partner, on the other hand, drinks almost every day and stays up until morning, and he is also taking bitter tea.
Could you please explain what might be causing his itching? Thank you.
Ms. Huang, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/02/24
Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology
Hello Ms.
Huang, your partner may be experiencing balanitis or a urinary tract infection.
Of course, excessive cleaning or allergies could also be contributing factors.
Daily alcohol consumption can also lower the body's resistance, making any of the aforementioned conditions possible.
Reply Date: 2021/02/24
More Info
Itchy symptoms after sexual activity can be concerning, especially when they occur consistently after intercourse with a partner who has been engaging in sexual activities outside of your relationship. There are several potential causes for these symptoms, and understanding them can help you determine the best course of action.
1. Irritation or Allergic Reaction: One of the most common reasons for itchiness after sex is irritation or an allergic reaction. This can be due to friction during intercourse, which can irritate the sensitive skin in the genital area. Additionally, if your partner uses certain lubricants, soaps, or hygiene products that you might be allergic to, this could also lead to itching. It’s important to consider any new products that have been introduced into your sexual routine.
2. Infections: Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can also cause itching and discomfort. Even with the use of condoms, there is still a risk of transmission of certain infections, particularly those that can be spread through skin-to-skin contact, such as herpes or human papillomavirus (HPV). If your partner has been engaging in sexual activities with others, it is wise to consider the possibility of STIs. Symptoms of STIs can vary widely, but itching, burning, and unusual discharge are common signs.
3. Yeast Infections or Bacterial Vaginosis: Women are particularly susceptible to yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis, which can be triggered by changes in the vaginal flora. Factors such as alcohol consumption, which your partner has been engaging in frequently, can alter the balance of bacteria and yeast in the body, potentially leading to infections. Symptoms of these conditions often include itching, burning, and unusual discharge.
4. Skin Conditions: Conditions such as eczema or psoriasis can also cause itching in the genital area. If you or your partner have a history of skin conditions, this could be a contributing factor.
5. Hygiene Practices: While maintaining good hygiene is important, over-washing or using harsh soaps can strip the skin of its natural oils, leading to dryness and irritation. It’s essential to use gentle, unscented products in the genital area and to avoid excessive scrubbing.
Given the complexity of these symptoms and the potential for STIs, it is crucial to seek medical advice. A healthcare provider can perform a thorough examination, run necessary tests, and provide a proper diagnosis. If an infection is present, timely treatment is essential to prevent complications and further transmission.
In the meantime, consider the following steps to alleviate symptoms:
- Avoid Irritants: Refrain from using scented soaps, lotions, or lubricants that may irritate the area.
- Wear Loose Clothing: Opt for breathable fabrics like cotton to reduce moisture and friction.
- Maintain Hygiene: Gently wash the area with mild soap and water, and avoid douching or using harsh products.
- Monitor Symptoms: Keep track of when the itching occurs and any other accompanying symptoms, as this information can be helpful for your healthcare provider.
In conclusion, while occasional itching after sex can be normal, persistent or severe symptoms warrant a medical evaluation. Open communication with your partner about sexual health and practices is also vital in addressing any concerns and ensuring both partners are healthy.
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