Overcoming Anxiety: Obsessive Thoughts and Their Impact - Psychiatry

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Obsessive thinking, anxiety, association?


Hello, doctor.
I apologize for the length of my message, and I appreciate your time.
I have always known that I have obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), but I have never seen a doctor about it.
It started in elementary school and has fluctuated over the years, but recently it has become quite troubling for me.
I feel that it is not just OCD anymore.

1.
I tend to overthink the consequences of minor issues, and my thoughts often lead to worst-case scenarios involving the lives and deaths of others, which causes me significant anxiety and fear.

2.
Recently, for reasons I cannot explain, I often find myself imagining scenarios where I have harmed others (the subjects are both familiar and unfamiliar to me).
I know these are just thoughts and will not happen (and the more I try not to think about them, the more they come to mind), but I still fear that something might actually happen to them in reality.

3.
Combining points one and two, I have been experiencing anxiety lately...
I know it sounds silly, but I hope someone can listen to me.
As I mentioned, my mind often suddenly conjures images of attacking someone, but soon after, I find that I am not as anxious.
However, after imagining an attack on a classmate, they have subsequently experienced a series of unfortunate events, leading me to wonder if I am somehow responsible (I feel that those I have imagined harming tend to encounter bad luck).
I am trying hard to find ways to alleviate my anxiety, such as convincing myself that I do not have any supernatural abilities, or reflecting on whether those I have imagined harming have faced any real-life consequences (some of whom I do not even know, so I cannot be sure).
I look for examples that contradict my thoughts, and I also try to use logic to reassure myself, such as considering that those unfortunate events would have happened regardless, and my frequent presence in their lives simply makes me more aware of their recent troubles.
While this helps somewhat, I really hope to find a definitive solution to my problem.
Thank you, doctor, for taking the time to read this.
Thank you.

S, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/03/02

Dr. Wu Enliang reply Psychiatry


Hello, online user: If it is truly distressing and affecting your daily life, I still recommend seeking medical attention for medication or psychological therapy! Dr.
Wu En-Liang

Reply Date: 2021/03/02

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Overcoming anxiety, particularly when it manifests as obsessive thoughts, can be a challenging journey. Your experience reflects a common struggle faced by many individuals dealing with obsessive-compulsive tendencies. It’s important to acknowledge that these thoughts and feelings, while distressing, do not define you or your reality.
Firstly, it’s crucial to understand that obsessive thoughts often stem from anxiety and can create a cycle of fear and worry. The mind tends to latch onto negative outcomes, especially concerning the well-being of others, which can lead to excessive rumination. This is a hallmark of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), where individuals may feel compelled to engage in mental rituals or compulsions to alleviate their anxiety. However, these compulsions often provide only temporary relief and can reinforce the cycle of anxiety.

Your experience of imagining harmful scenarios, despite knowing they are unlikely to occur, is a common cognitive distortion known as "catastrophizing." This involves anticipating the worst possible outcome from a situation, which can exacerbate feelings of anxiety and helplessness. It’s important to recognize that these thoughts are not predictive of reality; they are simply manifestations of anxiety.

To address these obsessive thoughts, several strategies can be beneficial:
1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This is a highly effective treatment for OCD and anxiety disorders. CBT focuses on identifying and challenging negative thought patterns and replacing them with more balanced and realistic thoughts. Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), a specific type of CBT, involves gradually exposing yourself to the sources of your anxiety while refraining from engaging in compulsive behaviors.

2. Mindfulness and Acceptance: Practicing mindfulness can help you become more aware of your thoughts without judgment. Techniques such as meditation can help you observe your thoughts as they arise and let them pass without engaging with them. This can reduce the power these thoughts have over you.

3. Journaling: Writing down your thoughts can be a helpful way to externalize them. It allows you to process your feelings and can provide clarity. You might find it useful to write about your fears and then challenge them with evidence that contradicts those fears.

4. Grounding Techniques: When you feel overwhelmed by anxiety, grounding techniques can help bring you back to the present moment. This might include focusing on your breath, engaging your senses, or practicing progressive muscle relaxation.

5. Seeking Professional Help: If your anxiety and obsessive thoughts are significantly impacting your daily life, it may be beneficial to consult with a mental health professional. They can provide a tailored treatment plan that may include therapy and, if necessary, medication to help manage your symptoms.

6. Building a Support System: Sharing your experiences with trusted friends or family members can alleviate feelings of isolation. They can provide support and reassurance, helping you feel less alone in your struggles.

7. Self-Compassion: It’s essential to be kind to yourself during this process. Understand that experiencing anxiety and obsessive thoughts does not make you weak or flawed. It is a part of being human, and many people face similar challenges.

In conclusion, while overcoming anxiety and obsessive thoughts may feel daunting, it is entirely possible with the right strategies and support. Remember that you are not alone in this journey, and seeking help is a sign of strength. By taking proactive steps, you can regain control over your thoughts and reduce the impact of anxiety on your life.

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