Issues with Cialis?
Hello doctor, I am 31 years old.
At the end of last year, I discovered that my partner was unfaithful, which caused a strain in our relationship.
However, we have been trying to work through it.
After this incident, I noticed that I have significant difficulty achieving an erection during intercourse, and I still have some psychological shadows lingering.
Therefore, I consulted a urologist who diagnosed me with psychogenic erectile dysfunction (I can still achieve an erection when masturbating, but the duration is not as good as before).
The doctor prescribed me Cialis for two months, advising me to take one pill after dinner each day.
I would like to ask if this medication can lead to dependence.
Will I be unable to achieve an erection after stopping the medication? I would like to seek another doctor's opinion on this recommendation.
Thank you! (I had not taken any related medications before this, and since starting the medication, my erections have significantly improved, even experiencing morning erections more frequently than before.)
Teddy, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/03/10
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: Dependence is not likely, but it is possible to feel worse without taking the medication.
These aspects rely on maintaining the body's health through exercise, diet, rest, and so on.
If it is possible to avoid medication, then natural methods are certainly preferable.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2021/03/10
More Info
Cialis, or tadalafil, is a medication commonly prescribed for erectile dysfunction (ED). It works by increasing blood flow to the penis, helping to achieve and maintain an erection when sexually stimulated. Your situation, where psychological factors are contributing to your erectile difficulties, is not uncommon, especially after experiencing a significant emotional event like infidelity in a relationship.
Regarding your concerns about dependency on Cialis, it’s important to understand how this medication works and its implications for long-term use. Cialis is not physically addictive in the way that substances like narcotics or alcohol can be. However, psychological dependency can develop, especially if you begin to feel that you cannot perform sexually without the aid of the medication. This is particularly relevant in your case, where the emotional trauma may have created anxiety around sexual performance.
When it comes to stopping Cialis after a period of use, many men worry that they will no longer be able to achieve an erection without it. However, studies have shown that for many individuals, especially those with primarily psychological causes of ED, the use of medications like Cialis can help restore confidence and alleviate anxiety, which may lead to improved erectile function even after discontinuation of the drug. In other words, while Cialis can provide immediate relief from ED, it does not necessarily mean that you will become reliant on it in the long term.
It’s also worth noting that the underlying causes of erectile dysfunction can vary widely. In your case, since you mentioned being able to achieve an erection through masturbation, it suggests that the physical mechanisms are intact, and the issue may be more related to anxiety and emotional stress. This is often referred to as psychogenic ED, where psychological factors play a significant role in the inability to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse.
In terms of duration of use, your doctor’s recommendation to take Cialis daily for two months is a common approach, especially if the goal is to help you regain confidence and reduce performance anxiety. After this period, it would be advisable to have a follow-up consultation with your healthcare provider to assess your progress and determine the best course of action moving forward. They may suggest a trial period without the medication to see if your erectile function has improved independently.
Additionally, consider integrating other forms of support into your treatment plan. Counseling or therapy can be beneficial in addressing the emotional aspects of your situation. A mental health professional can help you work through feelings of betrayal, anxiety, and any other emotional challenges you may be facing. This holistic approach can significantly enhance your overall well-being and sexual health.
Lastly, it’s essential to maintain open communication with your partner about your feelings and experiences. This can help rebuild trust and intimacy, which are crucial for a healthy sexual relationship.
In summary, while Cialis can be an effective treatment for erectile dysfunction, it is essential to address the psychological aspects of your situation as well. Dependency on the medication is more about psychological reliance than physical addiction, and many men find that their erectile function improves with time and support. Regular follow-ups with your healthcare provider and possibly seeking therapy can provide a comprehensive approach to managing your erectile dysfunction and emotional health.
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