Memory Loss in Middle-Aged Women: Is It Normal? - Psychiatry

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Mom's forgetfulness?


My mother is about 53 years old and has been experiencing increasing forgetfulness over the past two years.
I'm wondering if this could be related to her approaching menopause.
For instance, today she suddenly searched for her EasyCard, which has been missing for four or five years, and insisted that the one she is currently using (the new one) is not hers.
However, the card she is using is indeed hers.
She often goes into a room and comes out without taking anything, which seems quite normal.
I didn't pay much attention to it at first, but the frequency of these incidents has been increasing over the past two years.
Could this be due to her high work stress? Since she changed positions, she has been complaining more about her colleagues and supervisors.
I would like to know if this level of forgetfulness is considered normal.

Xiao Xi, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/03/14

Dr. Peng Liyun reply Psychiatry


Hello, based on your description, your mother's declining memory requires a comprehensive evaluation and cannot be solely attributed to age, menopause, or work-related stress.
It is recommended that you accompany your mother to a nearby mental health clinic for further assessment.
Thank you for your inquiry.
Best wishes, Dr.
Peng Liyun, Child and Adolescent Psychiatry.

Reply Date: 2021/03/14

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Memory loss in middle-aged women, particularly around the age of 53, can be concerning for both the individual experiencing it and their family members. Your mother's situation, where she has been increasingly forgetful over the past two years, raises valid questions about the underlying causes of her memory issues.
Firstly, it is important to recognize that memory loss can occur for a variety of reasons, and it is not uncommon for individuals in their 50s to experience some cognitive changes. One potential factor in your mother's case could be the onset of perimenopause or menopause, which typically occurs between the ages of 45 and 55. Hormonal fluctuations during this time can lead to various symptoms, including memory lapses, difficulty concentrating, and mood swings. Studies have shown that estrogen plays a role in cognitive function, and its decline can impact memory and other cognitive abilities.
Additionally, stress is another significant factor that can contribute to memory problems. If your mother has been experiencing increased stress at work, particularly after changing positions, this could exacerbate her forgetfulness. Chronic stress can affect the brain's ability to encode and retrieve memories, leading to lapses in memory. Stress management techniques, such as mindfulness, exercise, and adequate sleep, can be beneficial in mitigating these effects.

It is also worth considering other potential causes of memory loss, such as anxiety or depression. These mental health conditions can significantly impact cognitive function and memory. If your mother is feeling overwhelmed or anxious about her job or other aspects of her life, it may manifest as forgetfulness. Encouraging her to seek support from a mental health professional could be helpful in addressing these underlying issues.

In terms of whether her memory lapses are "normal," it is essential to differentiate between typical age-related memory changes and more concerning cognitive decline. Occasional forgetfulness, such as misplacing items or forgetting appointments, can be a normal part of aging. However, if her memory issues are affecting her daily life or becoming more frequent, it may be prudent to consult a healthcare professional for a thorough evaluation. This could include cognitive assessments to rule out conditions such as mild cognitive impairment or dementia.

To support your mother's cognitive health, consider encouraging her to engage in activities that promote brain health. Regular physical exercise, a balanced diet rich in antioxidants and omega-3 fatty acids, and mental exercises such as puzzles or learning new skills can all contribute to maintaining cognitive function. Additionally, ensuring she has a supportive social network can help alleviate stress and improve her overall well-being.

In summary, while some memory loss can be a normal part of aging, factors such as hormonal changes, stress, anxiety, and depression can also play significant roles. It is essential to monitor her symptoms and seek professional guidance if her memory issues persist or worsen. Supporting her through lifestyle changes and encouraging open communication about her experiences can also be beneficial.

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