Genital organ penis issues medical consultation?
Hello, Doctor: I currently have some questions: 1.
I masturbate almost every day, and whenever I am about to ejaculate, I feel a soreness on the left side; is this normal? 2.
I usually ejaculate very quickly, within 1-2 minutes.
3.
My penis is about 4-5 cm when not erect and around 11 cm when erect; I feel it's too short and I'm afraid my friends will find out.
4.
I think my penis is very sensitive and reacts easily.
5.
I am still a virgin, and I worry that I will ejaculate quickly with a partner as well.
6.
Is it normal for my penis to become soft quickly after masturbation? What should I do about all these concerns?
Wang Fu, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/03/24
Dr. Chen Jiansheng reply Urology
It seems that the psychological aspect of the issue is more significant.
Reply Date: 2021/03/24
More Info
It's completely normal to have concerns about sexual health, and it's great that you're seeking information. Let's address your questions one by one, providing insights based on medical knowledge.
1. Soreness During Ejaculation: Experiencing soreness or discomfort on one side of the penis during ejaculation can be due to a variety of reasons. It may be related to muscle tension, overuse, or even minor irritation. If this sensation is persistent or worsening, it would be wise to consult a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying conditions such as infections or anatomical issues.
2. Rapid Ejaculation: It's common for many individuals to experience rapid ejaculation, especially during masturbation. This can be influenced by various factors, including anxiety, excitement, or lack of experience. Techniques such as the "stop-start" method or the "squeeze" technique can help you gain better control over your ejaculation. If this is a significant concern, discussing it with a healthcare provider or a sex therapist can provide tailored strategies.
3. Penis Size Concerns: The average erect penis size is typically around 5 to 6 inches, and a flaccid size of 4 to 5 inches is within the normal range. It's important to remember that penis size does not determine sexual pleasure or compatibility. Many factors contribute to a fulfilling sexual experience, including emotional connection and technique. If you feel insecure about your size, consider focusing on other aspects of intimacy and communication with potential partners.
4. Sensitivity: Increased sensitivity in the penis can be normal, especially if you are frequently engaging in masturbation. However, if you find that this sensitivity is causing discomfort or affecting your sexual experiences negatively, it may be beneficial to explore different techniques or even take breaks to allow your body to adjust.
5. Concerns About Future Sexual Partners: Many individuals worry about performance with a partner, especially if they experience rapid ejaculation during solo activities. Communication with your partner about your concerns can help alleviate anxiety. Additionally, practicing relaxation techniques and focusing on foreplay can enhance the overall experience for both partners.
6. Erection Loss After Masturbation: It's normal for the penis to become soft after ejaculation. This is a natural physiological response as the body goes through the refractory period, which is the time it takes for the body to recover before another erection can occur. The duration of this period varies from person to person and can be influenced by factors such as age, overall health, and frequency of sexual activity.
Additional Advice:
- Healthy Practices: Maintaining a healthy lifestyle can positively impact sexual health. This includes regular exercise, a balanced diet, adequate hydration, and managing stress levels.
- Consultation: If your concerns persist or if you experience significant discomfort, it would be beneficial to consult a healthcare provider or a urologist. They can provide a thorough evaluation and offer personalized advice or treatment options.
- Education: Educating yourself about sexual health can help alleviate fears and misconceptions. Consider reading reputable sources or speaking with a healthcare professional about any concerns you may have.
In conclusion, while it's normal to have questions and concerns about sexual health, addressing them through education, communication, and professional guidance can lead to a more fulfilling and confident sexual experience. Don't hesitate to reach out for help if you need it; your health and well-being are important.
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