Wife's sexual satisfaction
Hello, doctor.
My wife is nearly seven months pregnant, and recently she has been wanting to experience orgasm.
We understand that after six months of pregnancy, sexual intercourse should be avoided to prevent premature labor and other risks.
However, we are unsure if she can be satisfied through foreplay or oral sex.
Will the vaginal contractions during her orgasm affect the fetus and potentially lead to premature labor? Are there any other risks to her or the fetus associated with her orgasm? During this late stage of pregnancy, can she enjoy the pleasure of orgasm without worry?
husband, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2000/12/16
Dr. Li Guanghan reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Sexual intercourse and orgasm can still occur in the later stages of pregnancy, provided there are no symptoms such as uterine contractions or bleeding.
Positions should be chosen that do not put pressure on the fetus and are not overly vigorous.
Generally, orgasms can cause uterine contractions, but if they are brief, they are unlikely to affect the fetus.
Reply Date: 2000/12/16
More Info
During late pregnancy, many couples have questions about the safety of sexual activity, including the experience of orgasm. Generally speaking, for most women with uncomplicated pregnancies, experiencing orgasm is considered safe. However, there are several factors to consider.
First and foremost, it is essential to understand that orgasm can lead to uterine contractions. These contractions are typically mild and temporary, and in a normal pregnancy, they do not pose a risk of preterm labor. The body is designed to handle these contractions without causing harm to the fetus. However, if a woman has a history of preterm labor, placenta previa, or other complications, it is crucial to consult with a healthcare provider before engaging in sexual activity.
In your case, since your wife is nearing seven months of pregnancy and is interested in enjoying sexual pleasure, it is generally safe to explore non-penetrative sexual activities such as kissing, touching, and oral sex. These activities can provide intimacy and satisfaction without the risks associated with penetrative intercourse. It is important to communicate openly with your partner about comfort levels and desires during this time.
Regarding the concern about vaginal contractions during orgasm, while it is true that the pelvic muscles contract during orgasm, these contractions are not strong enough to induce labor in a healthy pregnancy. The uterus is well-equipped to handle these contractions without affecting the fetus. However, if your wife experiences any unusual symptoms such as severe pain, bleeding, or significant changes in fetal movement, it is essential to seek medical advice immediately.
Moreover, it is worth noting that sexual activity during late pregnancy can have several benefits. It can help strengthen the emotional bond between partners, reduce stress, and even promote better sleep. Additionally, sexual activity can help prepare the body for labor by increasing blood flow to the pelvic area and potentially aiding in cervical ripening.
It is also important to ensure that both partners feel comfortable and relaxed during sexual activity. Pregnancy can bring about physical changes that may affect a woman's libido and comfort levels. Therefore, it is crucial to be attentive to her needs and preferences, adjusting activities as necessary to ensure a positive experience.
In conclusion, for most women with uncomplicated pregnancies, experiencing orgasm in late pregnancy is safe and can be a fulfilling part of the relationship. However, it is always best to consult with a healthcare provider if there are any concerns or if the pregnancy is considered high-risk. Open communication between partners and a focus on mutual comfort can help ensure that this aspect of intimacy remains enjoyable during this special time.
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