Could She Be Pregnant? Risks of Manual Stimulation

Can I get pregnant?

Hello doctor, my girlfriend's last menstrual period started on April 5th, and her usual cycle is about 28-29 days.
On the evening of May 7th, she gave me a handjob, and after ejaculation, I used a tissue to clean my penis.
Later, I inserted my hand into her vagina (about half an hour after she helped me), but my hand should have been dry at that time (although there might have been some semen on my hand before wiping it, I'm not sure if there was any residue left).
At that moment, her vagina was very wet, and we are both concerned that sperm could swim inside.
So far, my girlfriend has not gotten her period, and we are a bit worried, but we think May 7th should be relatively safe since it is likely not around her ovulation period.
I would like to ask the doctor if there is a possibility of pregnancy in this situation.
From April 5th until today, we have not had sexual intercourse, only some fondling on the evening of May 7th.
I am worried that inserting my fingers into her vagina could lead to pregnancy (my hand was wiped, and I believe it was dry, but I'm concerned that sperm could swim in due to her wet vagina).
Since my girlfriend's cycle has always been regular and she doesn't often experience delays (though she has in the past, but it has been normal for quite some time), she is now a week late, so we are a bit worried.

Xiao Ye, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/05/09

Dr. Cao Guotao reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Hello, the chances of pregnancy should be low.
Please wait for another week, and if your period still doesn't arrive, I recommend seeing a gynecologist.
Wishing you good health.

Reply Date: 2021/05/09

More Info

The concern regarding the possibility of pregnancy after manual stimulation, especially when there is a history of regular menstrual cycles, is a common one. In your case, your girlfriend's last menstrual period started on April 5, and her cycle typically lasts about 28-29 days. Given that she engaged in manual stimulation on May 7, it is important to analyze the timing of ovulation and the potential for sperm to cause pregnancy.

Ovulation typically occurs around the midpoint of the menstrual cycle. For a 28-day cycle, ovulation usually happens around day 14, while for a 29-day cycle, it may occur around day 15. Since your girlfriend's last period started on April 5, ovulation would likely have occurred around April 19-20. Therefore, by May 7, she would have been well past her ovulation window, making it less likely for her to conceive from that encounter.

However, the concern arises from the fact that sperm can survive in the female reproductive tract for up to five days under optimal conditions. If there was any residual sperm on your hand after the manual stimulation, there is a theoretical risk of pregnancy if those sperm were introduced into the vagina. That said, the likelihood of this happening is quite low, especially if your hand was dry and the introduction was not immediate.

Now, regarding your girlfriend's missed period: While it is understandable to be anxious, there are several factors that can cause a delay in menstruation aside from pregnancy. Stress, hormonal fluctuations, changes in weight, and even illness can all affect the menstrual cycle. Since her cycle has been regular in the past, the missed period could be attributed to one of these factors.

To address your concerns, here are some steps you can take:
1. Take a Pregnancy Test: The most straightforward way to determine if your girlfriend is pregnant is to take a home pregnancy test. These tests are designed to detect the hormone hCG, which is produced during pregnancy. It is best to wait until at least a week after the missed period for the most accurate result.

2. Consult a Healthcare Provider: If the pregnancy test is positive or if there are any further concerns, it would be wise for your girlfriend to consult a healthcare provider. They can provide further testing and guidance.

3. Monitor Symptoms: If your girlfriend experiences any unusual symptoms, such as nausea, breast tenderness, or fatigue, these could be signs of pregnancy or other conditions that warrant medical attention.

4. Consider Stress and Lifestyle Factors: If your girlfriend has been under stress or has experienced any significant lifestyle changes, these could also contribute to a delayed period. Encouraging her to relax and take care of her overall health can be beneficial.

In conclusion, while there is a theoretical risk of pregnancy from the scenario you described, the likelihood is low given the timing of ovulation and the nature of the encounter. Taking a pregnancy test will provide clarity, and if there are any concerns or if the test is positive, seeking medical advice is the best course of action.

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