Genital issues
Hello, doctor.
After having intercourse with my boyfriend, I consistently develop small fissures or skin tears in the perineum (the skin area below the vaginal opening and above the anus).
These do not affect my daily life, but they cause a stinging sensation when touched (such as during bathing or using the restroom).
They typically heal on their own within about three days without further intercourse.
I can confirm that we engage in sufficient foreplay and use adequate lubrication (including a lubricant), and my boyfriend is always gentle.
I would like to ask the doctor: 1.
Can the use of vaginal moisturizers or care products help improve this condition (fissures caused by intercourse)? 2.
If I continue to experience wounds after each intercourse, what ointment can I apply to accelerate the healing process?
Niming, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/06/04
Dr. Huang Zifei reply Obstetrics and Gynecology
Dear Anonymous,
1.
It is advisable to use skincare products to care for the perineal skin.
Additionally, it is recommended to rinse the perineum with warm water during washing and to massage it to increase elasticity.
Of course, one should also consider the size of the partner's genitalia and the positions used.
2.
Generally, if there is no inflammation, there is no need to apply ointments to aid healing.
The perineal area has a rich blood supply, and most tears or abrasions heal within 7 days.
If there is inflammation, you may apply Meikang ointment.
For any other concerns, it is recommended to consult a gynecologist.
Dr.
Huang Zifei, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Nantou Hospital
Reply Date: 2021/06/04
More Info
Understanding perineal tears, especially in the context of sexual activity, is important for maintaining comfort and health. Perineal tears can occur due to various reasons, including friction, inadequate lubrication, or even anatomical factors. Here’s a comprehensive overview of the causes, treatments, and care tips for managing perineal tears.
Causes of Perineal Tears
1. Friction: During sexual intercourse, especially if there is insufficient lubrication, friction can lead to micro-tears in the delicate skin of the perineum. Even with adequate foreplay and lubrication, some individuals may still experience tearing due to the intensity or duration of the activity.
2. Anatomical Factors: Individual anatomical differences can predispose some people to tears. For example, a tighter perineum or certain skin conditions may increase the likelihood of tearing.
3. Infection or Skin Conditions: Conditions such as yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, or dermatitis can weaken the skin, making it more susceptible to tearing during intercourse.
4. Hormonal Changes: Hormonal fluctuations, particularly during menopause, can lead to vaginal dryness and thinning of the vaginal walls, increasing the risk of tearing.
Treatments and Care Tips
1. Moisturizing Products: Using vaginal moisturizers or lubricants can help maintain skin elasticity and hydration. Products specifically designed for vaginal use can be beneficial. Look for water-based or silicone-based lubricants that can reduce friction during intercourse. Regular application of these products can help improve the condition of the perineal skin.
2. Topical Treatments: If you experience tears, applying a topical antibiotic ointment (like Neosporin) can help prevent infection and promote healing. Additionally, products containing aloe vera or calendula may soothe the area and support healing. Always ensure that any product used is safe for the vaginal area.
3. Hygiene Practices: After intercourse, gently cleanse the area with mild soap and water to prevent irritation and infection. Avoid harsh soaps or scented products that can exacerbate sensitivity.
4. Avoiding Irritants: Steer clear of douches, scented tampons, or other products that may irritate the vaginal area. These can disrupt the natural flora and lead to infections, which can complicate healing.
5. Consulting a Healthcare Provider: If tearing occurs consistently, it’s essential to consult a healthcare provider. They can assess for any underlying conditions that may contribute to the problem, such as infections or anatomical issues. A gynecologist may provide tailored advice or treatment options based on your specific situation.
6. Gradual Approach: If you continue to experience tearing, consider taking a break from penetrative intercourse to allow the area to heal fully. Engaging in other forms of intimacy that do not involve penetration can help maintain closeness while avoiding further irritation.
Conclusion
In summary, perineal tears can be a common issue during sexual activity, but they can often be managed effectively with proper care and attention. Using moisturizing products, maintaining good hygiene, and consulting with a healthcare provider can significantly improve your comfort and health. If the problem persists, it’s crucial to seek professional advice to rule out any underlying issues and to receive personalized treatment recommendations. Remember, your comfort and health are paramount, and addressing these concerns proactively can lead to a more enjoyable and pain-free intimate experience.
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