How to achieve sufficient and sustained engorgement and firmness?
I do not smoke or drink alcohol, have a normal body type, and exercise infrequently.
My job requires prolonged sitting, but I can stand up and walk around at any time (for about 9 hours a day).
When I watch DIY videos at home, I can achieve an erection, but as soon as I stop stimulating myself, it quickly becomes soft and I cannot maintain an erection.
During sexual intercourse, I can achieve an erection of about 70-80% during foreplay, but it always goes soft when penetration is attempted.
It feels like if the penis is not stimulated, it will start to soften.
Sometimes, I can get hard quickly while watching videos, but after ejaculation, it becomes soft immediately.
I would like to ask the doctor if this is considered psychogenic erectile dysfunction or if there is a physical issue with the penis.
Additionally, due to the pandemic, I would like to know if it is advisable to visit a hospital for this issue.
Z, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/07/01
Dr. Liu Mingyue reply Urology
Hello: Young people often experience anxiety as a primary concern, but a non-greasy diet and moderate exercise are also important for vascular health.
If the situation you mentioned persists, you should seek medical attention.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2021/07/01
More Info
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common issue that can affect men of all ages, and it can stem from a variety of causes, both physical and psychological. Understanding the underlying factors contributing to ED is crucial for finding effective solutions. Based on your description, it appears that you may be experiencing a combination of psychological and possibly physiological factors that are impacting your erectile function.
Psychological Factors
1. Performance Anxiety: The pressure to perform during sexual activity can lead to anxiety, which may cause the body to respond in a way that inhibits erection. This is particularly common if you find that you can achieve an erection during solo activities (like watching videos) but struggle during partnered sex. The fear of not being able to maintain an erection can create a cycle of anxiety that further exacerbates the problem.
2. Conditioned Responses: Your body may have become conditioned to respond to specific stimuli (like watching videos) but not to the physical sensations of intimacy. This can lead to difficulty maintaining an erection when transitioning from foreplay to penetration.
Physiological Factors
1. Blood Flow Issues: While you mention that you are in good shape and do not smoke or drink, prolonged sitting can affect blood circulation. If you have a sedentary job, it may be beneficial to incorporate more physical activity into your daily routine. Regular exercise can improve cardiovascular health, which is essential for erectile function.
2. Hormonal Factors: Testosterone levels can also play a role in erectile function. If you suspect hormonal imbalances, it may be worth discussing this with a healthcare provider.
3. Nerve Function: The ability to achieve and maintain an erection is also dependent on the proper functioning of the nerves involved in the process. If there has been any trauma or injury to the pelvic area, it could affect nerve function.
Solutions
1. Psychological Counseling: If anxiety or psychological factors are contributing to your ED, consider speaking with a therapist or counselor who specializes in sexual health. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can be particularly effective in addressing performance anxiety and other psychological barriers.
2. Physical Activity: Increasing your level of physical activity can help improve blood flow and overall health. Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic exercise each week, along with strength training exercises.
3. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Continue to maintain a healthy diet, manage stress, and ensure adequate sleep. Avoiding excessive caffeine and maintaining hydration can also be beneficial.
4. Communication with Partner: Open communication with your partner about your experiences and feelings can help alleviate some of the pressure you may feel during sexual encounters. Understanding and support from your partner can create a more relaxed environment.
5. Medical Consultation: If the problem persists, it may be wise to consult a urologist or a healthcare provider specializing in sexual health. They can conduct a thorough evaluation to rule out any underlying medical conditions and discuss potential treatment options, which may include medications or other therapies.
COVID-19 Considerations
Regarding your concern about visiting a hospital during the pandemic, many healthcare providers have adapted to offer telehealth services. This allows you to discuss your concerns with a medical professional from the comfort of your home. If an in-person visit is necessary, hospitals are implementing safety protocols to minimize the risk of COVID-19 transmission.
In conclusion, erectile dysfunction can be multifactorial, and addressing both psychological and physiological aspects is essential for effective management. By taking proactive steps and seeking appropriate support, you can work towards improving your erectile function and overall sexual health.
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