Penile issues
I'm seeking advice from a doctor.
I am currently an 18-year-old student.
When I was in the first year of junior high, I was watching adult films when my parents suddenly entered the room.
At that moment, I suppressed my erection, which caused a tearing sensation in the surrounding muscles.
After that, for a long time, I experienced pain during masturbation and urination, which left a significant psychological impact on me.
I didn't dare to speak about it, and it has continued until now.
After each time I masturbate, my penis hurts for several hours.
I'm unsure if this is due to an injury or psychological factors.
Although the pain has gradually diminished, I have been able to overcome the anxiety I felt.
However, I now face the issue of my penis being angled about 40 degrees off-center when erect, and it often becomes soft during erections.
Even when it is erect, the hardness is insufficient, and I have noticed that my size is much smaller than my father's.
I understand that size varies from person to person, but I want to ask if my erection angle, hardness, and size are results of what happened back then.
Is there still a chance for it to develop into what it should be? Will it be irreversible if I didn't address it at the time?
Mr. Wu, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/07/15
Dr. Lin Wenxu reply Urology
If the curvature of the penis is due to an injury, you will need to visit the outpatient clinic for a proper diagnosis from a physician.
Dr.
Lin Wun-Hsu, Urology Department, Nantou Hospital.
Reply Date: 2021/07/15
More Info
Understanding penile issues, particularly in young men, is a multifaceted topic that encompasses physical, psychological, and emotional dimensions. Your concerns about erectile function, pain during masturbation, and the angle of your erections are valid and not uncommon among young men. Let's break down the potential causes and solutions for these issues.
Causes of Penile Issues
1. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, especially related to sexual performance, can significantly impact erectile function. The experience you described in your early teens, where you felt pressure to suppress an erection, may have created a psychological barrier that affects your confidence and sexual response. This can lead to a cycle of anxiety that exacerbates the problem.
2. Physical Factors: Pain during masturbation and urination can stem from various physical issues, including trauma to the penis, inflammation, or even infections. If you experienced a significant amount of discomfort after the incident you described, it’s possible that there was some minor injury or strain that has since healed but left lingering effects.
3. Anatomical Variations: The angle of an erection can vary widely among individuals. A deviation of 40 degrees, while it may seem significant, is not necessarily indicative of a serious problem. However, if this is accompanied by pain or discomfort, it may warrant further investigation.
4. Hormonal and Developmental Factors: Hormonal imbalances can also affect erectile function and size. Testosterone plays a crucial role in sexual health, and any fluctuations during puberty can lead to variations in development.
Concerns About Recovery and Treatment
1. Recovery from Trauma: If your pain has diminished over time, it suggests that any physical trauma may have healed. However, if you continue to experience pain or discomfort, it would be wise to consult a healthcare professional. They can perform a physical examination and possibly recommend imaging studies to rule out any underlying issues.
2. Erection Angle and Hardness: The angle of your erection and its hardness can improve with time and appropriate interventions. Engaging in regular sexual activity, whether through masturbation or with a partner, can help desensitize any psychological barriers and improve erectile function.
3. Therapeutic Options: If psychological factors are at play, consider speaking with a mental health professional who specializes in sexual health. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) can be particularly effective in addressing performance anxiety and other related issues.
4. Lifestyle Modifications: Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can improve overall health and potentially enhance sexual function. Reducing stress through mindfulness practices or relaxation techniques can also be beneficial.
5. Medical Consultation: If concerns persist, it is advisable to consult a urologist. They can assess your situation more thoroughly, including hormone levels and any anatomical concerns. Treatments may include medications, therapy, or other interventions depending on the diagnosis.
Conclusion
In summary, while your experiences are understandably concerning, many young men face similar issues, often rooted in a combination of psychological and physical factors. The good news is that with the right support and interventions, many of these issues can be addressed effectively. It’s essential to approach this topic openly and seek professional guidance to ensure that you receive the appropriate care and support. Remember, sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and addressing these concerns early can lead to a healthier and more fulfilling sexual life in the future.
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